do we need to greave? how do we greave?

Answer 1

Greaving is a normal process. Some people cry others need to talk about it and others may like to draw or paint whatever way is normal. I read that there are several stages to the grieving process and we go through them at different pace. Anger and denial are part of this process. When my dad died last year I felt numb and was able to keep it together to help make some very big decisions with the doctors. It took about 2 months before I could even shed a tear over his death. If you are grieving know that time helps heal most of our woundsm grieve at your own pace and however you feel is right for you.

Answer 2

Grief is a emotional process. Its different for everyone. There is no wrong way or right way to grieve, just be honest with what you are feeling. People generally, go threw a roll coaster ride of different emotions. This is normal. Feel what you feel. Talk about it as much as you can to someone that will listen. People tend to shy away from loved ones or friends that have suffered a loss, fearing they might say or do something wrong. Or they think if they may say something, that might make you start hurting all over again. There is very little a person can do to help another person work their way threw the process, other than just being there and listening to them, and give them all the time they need. Lean on God, and prayer. This helps tremendously.

Answer 3

It is a release for most people, so I would say yes, people need to. But how, when or if we grieve is an individual thing as people's reactions to certain situations differ. It doesn't hit some people right away and sometimes it seems to come from nowhere when it does. There are stages of grieving which can include hurt, anger, focus on unresolved issues, suppression, guilt, inner conflict, etc.

There are therapists who specialize in grief counseling. If you have a problem dealing with grief or you feel you should be grieving and you're not and this is an issue for you, maybe you could consider a session with a counselor.

Answer 4

Grief is a very personal matter. It is normal to be very sad and cry and feel lonely when you lose someone you love, or if you lose a pet that you've had for a long time. when you lose someone or something, you have to let go eventually.

Grief can be expressed in many ways, by crying, being angry, being sad, acting out, bad behaviour, withdrawing from normalcy, failure to do what has to be done, or becoming depressed.

In normal people, grief lasts a few days, weeks, or maybe a month or two. If a person is actively mourning much longer than that period, it becomes depression, which CAN become very severe and long-term. The key is to recognize what is happening to you and WHY.

Answer 5

Greave is a leg armor worn below the knee. If you're talking about grieve... then no, you don't have to grieve. Somebody can't tell you how to mourn someone's death... you deal things your own way.

Answer 6

You will find that the grieving process began when you lost your loved one , it just hasn't fully started . If you loved the person then now is the time to say goodbye and let them go . Allow yourself time to realize that they are gone and aren't coming back . I know exactly what you are going through , I lost 2 grandmothers , 2 grandfathers , 1 niece , cousins , and friends . May God bless you and strengthen you through this and make you stronger . Philippians 4:13

Answer 7

Well, it depends on how close you were to the person who died. If they were close, grieving is a way to emotionally cope with the loss of the person. Everyone deals with it differently, but there is usually some crying, some anger, some depression, and finally some comming to terms with the loss and continuing on with life.

Answer 8

Grief is a process that has different stages, like anger, sorrow, guilt and so on. You will do this naturally. Check out the book called Good Grief.

Answer 9

Yes of course you need to. It's human nature, everyone griefs different so I can't tell you how you will figure that out on your own. It is your right to grief, just for being human OK don't let someone tell you that you take too long or your doing it wrong.

Answer 10

We grief for many reasons. Love lost, difficulties, death etc. Do we need to grief? It depends on how dear someone you lost is, or your level of tolerance to pain. Allow yourself some time to grief. Though things will not improve while you’re sitting down crying, but it certainly helps to ease the sorrow.