Shes a nice girl. Shes funny smart and i want to tell her how i feel, but how? What if she doesnt feel the same way for me? What should i do??
2006-08-13 03:38:16 · 24 answers · asked by rsuavez66 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can see her naked but you can't tell her how you feel? hmmm
2006-08-13 03:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by skybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it’s important to state that I really do believe you love her for who she is, not for what she does. One thing that you have to remember is that part of being a stripper/escort/hustler; you have to close yourself off emotionally. (not from experience) I don't think that you would be able to do any of those things without feeling the need to protect yourself emotionally. So first you are going to need to get past that. Secondly, strippers are paid to make men believe that they are desirable, wanted. So your are also going to need to know, when is she doing that with you? (perhaps also as a emotional protection) She is probable very good at what she does, so be careful of that.
I am thankful that you see her the way that you do. If you see her AT ALL any differently than what you typed above ("She’s a nice girl. She’s funny smart") then you don't need to be with her. She is NOT a toy or something to be trifled with.
Also consider this, How do you feel about marriage to a stripper? I mean if everything goes as planned and you marry her, how are you going to feel about her continuing that job? How do you feel about her qualities as a wife? A mother? Do not go into any relationship expecting that person to change.
While I personally do not agree with her choice of work, I pray that you will both be happy and whatever God wills for your life will happen. Remember that Jesus loves you and only wants the best for both of you.
God bless you both
2006-08-13 04:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Briar Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's funny and smart and you care about her, what difference does it make what she does for a living?
Honey, all you can do is be honest with her. Talk to her honestly about how you feel, but do it gently, I mean, without a lot of heavy emotion that might put her off. Chances are, if you've been seeing each other some, she's already picked up how you feel. Just tell her how important she's become in your life and you're hoping she feels the same. Then take it from there.
Good luck, dear.
2006-08-13 03:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her dude,...have everything to gain,..nothing to lose. By the way...nothing wrong with strippers. Some ppl may think that it shows a lack of self respect, but i don't. If they are sleeping with everybody then that's different. If they were blessed with a beautiful body,...then why be ashamed to show it? Go 4 it dude....don't know till u try !! Good luck
2006-08-13 03:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may not be love it might be just attraction cause most males are attracted to some one who strips, love is a sacred word and should not be missused, is it going to be a commitment on your part and what if she like her work would you be able to bare the thought of what she does , an may be have men pawing her in front of you, i dont say strippers should not fall in love but you have to go into this relationship with your eyes and mind wide opened other wise its never going to work out
best of luck
2006-08-13 03:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, listen to me; you can't get serious with a stripper. She will not be faithful to you.
She will stay with you until she meets a guy at the club she strips at that she likes better...then you'll be old news.
In addition, every stripper I ever knew had mental problems of one type or another.
In short; date her for awhile because it's fun, but know that it's not going anywhere.
2006-08-13 03:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man She's a stripper, be realistic. I doubt this girl has ever had a functional relationship in her life. I have known strippers personally and every one of them had serious, insurmountable problems, plus they look down on all men, they hate us.
2006-08-13 03:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I spent ten years as a disc jockey in a strip club. Please listen to me. The game is to sucker the guy in, get his money, and when he makes a confession like the one you propose, string him on for as long as he's spending, then move on. I will say I have seen love develope, but mostly not. You also don't know what their life is really like. All you see is the sweet sexy girl, not the other one outside the club.
2006-08-13 03:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strippers are low down whores! You will only get hurt by her! She is a professional who is cold and unfeeling! However. . . . being that you have fallen in love with her you must frequent strip clubs. I can only assume you are a desperate scumbucket Dork who can't get laid. As a result you probably waste all your money on a piece of pie you'll never eat! You will end up broke and alone with a bottle of jerklube!
2006-08-13 03:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey guy I have a CLOSE friend that's a stripier and all she wants from men is there money ! not saying all strippers are like that but , it would be better for you to check out her ex's before you fall to far !!!
2006-08-13 03:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by me m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alot of men fall for strippers they think they can save them from themselves but a vast magority of strippers enjoy their jobs ,the question is would you enjoy her job cause no one in their right mind would give up that load of cash to become a housewife if thats youre intention
2006-08-13 03:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋