My boyfriend always want it sometimes when I am very tired after a long working day. When I reject it he becomes unhappy. I am kind of tired of always having a tiff with him over sex issues.
2006-08-13 03:02:58 · 43 answers · asked by Truesurvival 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it is one of several different factors in an 'adult' relationship.
2006-08-13 03:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly how you feel with past experiences. Sex isnt everything in a relationship (well maybe for men though), your bf should understand and respect when u are too tired, but avoiding sex completly will not be good in your relationship.
I think love is the most important in relationships although sex and other things all do play a part in the relationship. You should talk to your partner so he knows how u feel, thats if hes the talking type.
2006-08-13 03:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by rach_b_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is a NO. Sex is important and plays an essential role in a relationship but that doesn't mean it's everything. You don't have to be upset over this issue. It explains a lot of things. He doesn't care about you. If he understands that you're tired after your work, 1st of all he shdn't have even ask you to have sex with him. Obviously, he's banging his head on a wall. You'd definitely have no mood & no strength to do it with him. 2ndly is he don't seem to love you a lot. Becoz all he wants is sex and to make himself happy and satisfy his own needs. He's a selfish dude. Leave him if he continues this way. He doesn't even care how tired or hungry you may be when you reach home. Think about it carefully, do you really want this guy to be your future hubby? For me personally, I don't want to let this small issue to affect my life in a long run. Lastly, I sincerely hope you can seriously think it over your relationship with him. If he really loves you & decides to change for you, you can probably give him a chance. Ultimately, it's a small issue which I believe you guys can talk over it slowly. Surely you wldn't want this to affect your love life right? Take care & hope there's gd news for you...cheers!
2006-08-13 03:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is important to a relationship but its not every thing, there is lot more to a relation just pure physical lust, he has to take your tiredness into consideration, but you on the other hand should also see that you do have some time for him other wise he will look out for a relationship behind your back, you have to stop over working your self, and take a little time to relax, have you visited your family doctor to find out if this tiredness is not a run down condition and needs attention,perhaps your partner will take that into consideration, you must have heard the saying all work and no play makes jill a dull girl, stop having a tiff over this other wise from a tiff it may lead to a battle field, best of luck
2006-08-13 03:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a relationship is good, sex doesn't mean much.
If it's bad, then sex could be the only thing that keeps you together. And so,life out of bed would be a drag! Solution? Get a life, lose the guy!
2006-08-13 03:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...,relationship not always having sex,may be you need to talk to your boyfriend if he want having sex to you that you filling very tired ask him for doing something that can make you filling freeze(ex;massage) and take enough rest pass doing sex so for the next OK.
2006-08-13 03:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by fang yi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys connect sex and love, if they are turned down they feel rejected. Now this does not mean that you should when you dont feel like it.
You should tell him that when you say no that you are not rejecting him you are just tired. You should try making the first move once in awile, and not him always making the first.
2006-08-13 03:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex isn't everything to a relationship. Ultimately a relationship is what you have when you take sex out of the equation. If your whole relationship is based on sex, you don't really have anything with this guy.
2006-08-13 03:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex obviously isnt everything. Its just important. Being sexually compatable with your partner is very important. The poor guy just wants you to make his day. Maybe he should be more understanding and considerate to your feelings but you should also do the same for him. It doesnt have to be all the time, but because you love him, give it up to him sometimes. Would it kill u?
2006-08-13 03:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not everything in a relationship. Its just not. and ur boyfrined should understand if u tired and and he should not ask u after work. and tell him not all the time and mybe 3 a months. or something. that should work.
2006-08-13 03:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is nothing in a relationship. It's just something to do for fun and excitement. Love and care is the true thing in a relationship. If you love each other strongly and care for each other in the heart.
Sex is just something in a relationship called SOMETHING TO DO FOR FUN!!!
If he keeps on doing this, damn I would break up with that *****!
2006-08-13 03:06:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋