is this normal?
2006-08-13 02:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by prevacidman 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It's natural to worry about losing the great things in our lives. The fear is really about whether or not we will have the strength to deal with the loss and move on. And the fear that if we lose what we have, we can never get it back again.
If you look around us, there are always incredibly horrible things happening to good people, so we all have to accept that the risk of losing what we value and love is a real possibility. But we can't let ourselves be driven by that fear or you will never be able to appreciate what you have today.
If you can become truly confident in your ability to handle any challenge that comes your way then you will be able to stop worrying about losing everything you have.
The reality is we can never know what the future holds for us, all we can know is that we are all much stronger than we think we are and we do have the ability to deal with anything. It is all about perspective.
2006-08-13 05:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kaoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone worries that their life may change drastically and it can in fact change. Just take a look at all the people in the Katrina area who are still trying to piece their lives back together. That is those that have lives still. Many did not make it through the storm. Some died in the aftermath after the storm. You could be going to the store and a truck hit you and next thing you know you are a quadriplegic. So enjoy what you have now.
2006-08-13 02:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry that it will be taken away. I have had everything taken away three times (through divorces and job layoffs). I have had several friends that this happed to as well.
This has a lot to do with jobs being lost to countries like India.
Save all the money you can and enjoy life while you can. It becomes horrible when you get older.
2006-08-13 03:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one has a great life and if they tell you that they do, they are lying, no one has the perfect life, perfect marriage. everyone has some sort of problem, if you talk to some people you will see that there are a lot of people out there that are far worst off than you are. Go make some friends and find something fun to do stop feeling sorry for yourself and making your self go nuts over all this.
2006-08-13 04:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by have to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good to worry about things, but I can assure you it's possible to have a great life and lose nearly everything because it happened to me.
2006-08-13 02:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a great life,not rich sometimes hard to make ends meet,but my great grandfather who lived to be 100 years old told me "If you want to live a long life,only worry about things that you can change,things you can"t are not worth worrying about"
Dave
2006-08-13 03:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lost so much already I have stopped worrying what could happen and just am prepared for any eventuality. Try not to worry. It's a waste of energy.
2006-08-13 03:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 05:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya..its normal to feel that way, since its reality that everything in life is just a passersby...their are things that only would stay in some phase of our life....its a thing called uncertainty....
2006-08-13 02:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by humansly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny but this thought came to me this week. I was literally devastated, but perhaps these thoughts came to my mind just to remind me of how fortunate I am. Don't worry it will pass, as long as you want it to pass away. Still be always grateful of what you have. If you want to talk sometime email me :) Good luck and Tc
2006-08-13 03:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by maoritatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋