ok about an hour ago i kissed my x-bf and the catch is i imedatley told my best friend who like my x too. see me and my x split on realy good terms and we still like each other but cant go out. what do i do? i kissed my x-bf that my best friend likes and that i like too but i dont want to kiss him again and hurt my best friend cuz i know we'll kiss again? any help!
2006-08-13 02:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by janejane. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just have sex. Without kissing. Everybody's happy.
2006-08-13 02:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did your best friend say when u told her what happened?? was she upset?? if she really cares for your x then she will be very upset with u, she will feel that u have betrayed her...well if u cant go out with your ex, then avoid remaining alone with him if u cant kiss him...do u still care for your x?? that might be a problem because then u will have to choose between him and your best friend... who is more important for u?? u can try to find yourself someone else if u want...or talk to your best friend and be truthful with her, and try to find a solution together... now if your x still likes u then your best friend will have to understand this...
good luck
take care
2006-08-13 02:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the best thing you can do in this situation is to not worry about what you think your best friend will think of you and instead, go for it. the last thing you'd want is to keep thinking about what other people think just because they just so happen to like the guy themself. im in an awkward situation myself, except it seems quite opposite to yours. last christmas time i met one of my best friend's friends. we spent a lot of time together that night and went to the pub afterwards for drinks. it was just the three of us who went, but when i was told to shout for drinks, the guy i met payed for the round of drinks instead and ended up kissing me. we kissed throughout the rest of the night, even while in hungry jacks and while we were waiting for a taxi, and he asked me to go out with him the following night. i knew i couldnt, so i said no. he asked for my number and i never gave it to him. i didnt see him till the 29 june, the day b4 my best friend was leaving. my best friend set it up cos he liked the fact that we both liked each other. although my best friend and his brother and his brother's girlfriend urged and encouraged me to kiss this guy on the night, just as i was going home, in a way im glad i got to kiss him. it wasnt the fact that we kissed that im glad, its knowing that he kissed me back again. the kiss itself was bad, cos i could taste a bit of the alcohol he had over an hour previously, and he even smiled at me as i was taking off. if it wasnt for that, i'd never know whether he still likes me or not. i guess what im trying to say that you're your own person, and its up to you to make decisions, but at the same time, if you like a guy and you know he likes you back, you know that there's really nothing stopping you from getting back together with him. its not the best friend that he likes, its you. always remember that. dont let anyone try to tell you otherwise or come between what you and your ex have. she's not a best friend if she thinks otherwise and starts to hate you. she's not even worth being your friend if she cant support and accept your decisions.
2006-08-13 02:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to ur x to see if there is still feling there between u both but remember u won't always hear what u want it may hurt you and u got to be ready for what u hear and if u still got feelings for this guy than u need to do this soon before you friend acts on her wants. If you get back together just tell her you both agreed to get back together and work things out.
2006-08-13 02:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by doreen h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel. you need to tell your friend that you like him and that you want to be with him ask her if it is OK because it will make her feel a little better cuz if you go behind her back then she will get mad. I think that he likes you too if he kissed you ask him how he feels about going out or being friends with benefits.
2006-08-13 02:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell you friend that you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend. She may or may not accept it but you must be honest with yourself. Next you have to discuss things with your ex and see where things could be leading up to. He just might think nothing of the kiss. You must cover all your ground and be honest with yourself.
2006-08-13 02:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth does your best friend like your ex - and why is this something she would share with you? this just seems like a bad idea. aren't there enough men in the world?
and obsiously something is unresolved with you and the x...
I think you need to talk to him about all of this.
2006-08-13 02:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Misc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what's happened .. don't rub it in her face just mention it gently .. see how she reacts if she takes it really bad don't do anything about this guy friendships are more important than guys .. but if she's okay with it go ahead .. Good luck!
2006-08-13 02:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ciara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the bright side at least you did not give him a BJ
2006-08-13 02:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lost in Space 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depend on you which one really makes you happy being with you x or being with your friend. and who really has the greatest value to you.
2006-08-13 02:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by a comedian yet very sensous man. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋