How do i tell him?

Question

How do I tell this guy how i feel

he lives in brooklyn I live in uk

I really think its the distance thing that is bothering him

but i dont know how to bring it up help

we were kinda building up to it on the net for four months

I new him 12yrs ago and then i went over for two weeks and it was amazing

but night before i left he told me we had no chemistry but i dont think he was telling the truth i think its cos i was leaving the nxt day
cos when i went to go he held on to me s tight and kissed me for 10 min or more

we chat and we email but now sort of in limbo

Answer 1

dont bring it up,be fun .

Answer 2

Just ask 'is this distance thing bothering you?'
Telling him how you feel depends on if its something he will want to hear, and sometimes you can plan exactly what you are going to say, pick up the phone - and then disaster...you say the wrong thing.. Why not just ask him on the phone if distance is a problem, and then depending on his answer, mail him so it's all written down in a straightforwardway and he can read and re-read as often as he likes.
Good luck!

Answer 3

then why dont you go see him if you love him, if you want to b with him just tell him. long distance relationships are really hard sometimes I was in one for two months with my fiancee but we saw each other after 2 months, have fun just talk to him, ask him if he wants children.

Answer 4

Have you tried an e-mail, phone, letter,message in a bottle?

Answer 5

Just come straight out with it, otherwise it will bug you forever until you say what you need to

Answer 6

Be straight out. Men don't understand women's "hints", or mis-interpret them, but try not to sound confrontational.

Answer 7

impossible to bring anything up at that distance.go visit.

Answer 8

do what you feel is right

Answer 9

just say it .. and be casual about it!