The man that i have been posting about and asking questions and everything has a girlfriend :'(..we talked by email and he told me he was seeing someone. this completely brought me down. He still tells me he still worries about me whenever i tell him my knees and ankles hurt (i play soccer, very physical) and he doesn't want me to get hurt. he still buys me lunch and everything which i guess is good. we still talk alot and see each other alot still. he says he'll always he there for me. And i can't take him off my mind every little stupid thing makes me think of him Do I still have a chance with him?
Please do not ask how old i am or how old he is
2006-08-13 01:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by Addie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think you should know where to place yourself.
2006-08-13 01:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend already, I don't think that u still have a chance to be his girlfriend,unless he would let it go the other one,because if you still keep hoping for that,your the only one will suffer and get hurts your feelings everytime you see him,so if I were you try to find someone else that would give more time to see what your feelings are,the one who doesnt have anybody except you,that your the only one from his heart,and not anyone else
2006-08-13 08:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You still have a chance with him. Talk to him in plain language and ask him point blank what it will be like in the future.
Find out if he is willing to commit to you or his wanderlust is still in full swing in him. One way love will never work. Human love is sustained by mutual satisfaction of each other's expectations. Otherwise, it will wither away slowly.
2006-08-13 08:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by stvenryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view (and I'm sorry that it is this way):
when two people fall in love, it is rarely the case that both are single.
more typical is that there is one single and the other part is in a relationship (however happy or unhappy).
so try to make out how happy he is in his relationship, and if he mentions that "so much has changed since we were last in London" - this is your chance. however, if he tells you he is the happiest men on earth and how much he loves his gf, move on and, as one fellow pointed out, catch another fish.
2006-08-13 09:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but it sounds like this guy is completely faithful to his gf and only sees you as a great friend .. either accept this or stay far away .. you don't want to muck up his life do you?!?
2006-08-13 08:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ciara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to the next. Plenty of fish in the sea, don't get hung up on someone you can't have anyways.
2006-08-13 08:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by pete_can_do 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, it's so obvious that he's only doing his own self a favor. why don't you just punch him on the face? come on, this guy is obviously hurting you!
wake up!
2006-08-13 08:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him and his girl break up then hes all ur's my friend
2006-08-13 08:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋