2006-08-13 00:33:51 · 18 answers · asked by Devopriya 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The problem is in ur side. He stares at ur breast because u show them freely to him. What is the neccesity to show it to him ?
2006-08-13 00:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by praveen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a 4, 5, and 7 year old (they're all girls, but...). I'm 8 months pregnant, and they keep telling me I have a big belly and asking if they're going to have big boobs like me when they grow up. My 3 year old nephew walked in on his mom and said, "I yikem (like your) boobs, mom!" It's a kid thing. Just explain that yes, that's the way your body is made, but that boobs (or breasts, or whatever) are private parts and that it's not appropriate for him to make comments about other people's private parts. Then either ignore further comments, or nonchalantly answer any other questions he might have (or refer him to his parents), and change the subject. He'll give up if he doesn't get a reaction from you.
2006-08-13 18:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by queenmamajen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he hasn't learnt what is and isn't acceptable yet. He's 5 , and he may start being interested in the human body. TV is also a little to blame, he may just be being a parrot and mimicking what he's hearing. In any case, since it is you that he does this with, sit him down and tell him that it's not polite or acceptable to talk about a woman's breasts. You know what you want to tell him, so tell it to him in a way that a 5 year old would understand, and remember.. they know more than you think.
2006-08-13 01:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Imani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, you tell him every single time that what he's doing is wrong in a very firm voice. Also, enlist the help of his parents!!! They should be correcting this behavior with you. I'd suggest a timeout for any violation after your next warning!
2006-08-13 01:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for kids his age to be inquisitive. Slowly, he will grow up and forget about ever watching your breasts. I am sure you dont wanna show these to him though. So stay cool.
2006-08-13 02:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by spj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL well they are probably huge. Don't worry about it. Now if he starts grabbing at them then you have a problem and you need to sit him down and talk to him.
2006-08-13 00:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counsel him properly and tell him that it is something natural with girls because every mom has to feed her children,God made it like that.one more thing don't change your facial expression I mean dont feel embarrassed or happy,......in some days he will forget it.
2006-08-13 02:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. I guess u need to counsel hima nd tell him that its a bad thing to do so..wat will u do if he does the same thing in public...!!
2006-08-13 01:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by smashbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can decide on this only after i personally inspect the mammary glands.
2006-08-13 00:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Chandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has not learned that it is not appropriate yet, tell his this. maybe it will help, but he is 5 and a boy, it is natural.
2006-08-13 00:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋