2006-08-13 00:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by reycess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember that everything has a beginning and an end. Ending a relationship is not throwing it away, because everything ends eventually, it's simply your choice when.
If you have found someone new, and you have genuine feelings for them, then this is a sign that your previous relationship could be winding up. But it's not definate. You might want to take a break, or take a step back, don't run into this other guy's arms though. Take a step back and make sure you are making the decision that is right for you.
Don't worry if what you decide turns out to be a mistake, there are no mistakes, you will have learned something.
2006-08-13 00:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sith Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honesty is the best policy. If you are living together or something like that, then I would go to a public place and have a talk with him. Then go over with two other people and get your clothes and stuff. You never know how people will take something like that. If you are only dating, then same thing, just go some where public and I don't mean in the car. Some way meet him, and sit and talk. I would be very nice to him, and just say that you need to be dating others now and five years is a long time, etc. Stringing it out will only hurt you and him, so make it very straight forward. If there is violence, begging and such, if you are in a public place, you can just walk away. Have someone wait for you close by in a car, so you can get in the car and leave. You never know how people take stuff like this. Good luck.
2006-08-13 00:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend for 5 years and he hasn't proposed to you yet? It depends on how you feel about the new guy. If you like him better than the boyfriend, you can use the fact he hasn't proposed to you as an out. But you need to ask yourself are you willing to throw 5 years away on someone that may not pan out?
2006-08-13 00:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ending a relationship is sometimes the beginning of freedom. Starting a new one is a step in the dark. Be careful, don't be a relationship hopper unless your bf of 5 years does not love you dearly. Or you are the one who does not love him any more? You can take the new guy if the case is either of these two.
2006-08-13 00:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a recess,and get a life,5yrs, and you are interested in someone else,i hope and, wish you happiness,do you think mister new is going to be much better
2006-08-13 00:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be a woman and tell him its over and that you think its time to let go,by the way i also read your previous question and understand why you where the jealous type accusing him of cheating when it was you that was doing it all along i think he deserves to know the truth
2006-08-13 00:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my boyfriend of five years and then we got married this may of 2006. i met alot of men during our relationship and i still meet them. but you have to look at it this way. 5 years is a long time, think about what has kept yal together...you two must share equal qualities to stay 2gether that long. BUT, your not married and if you feel like you have to take a break to find yourself, honey do it. this is your life. trust me, you cant do it when your married...
2006-08-13 00:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you do..,! If you are old enough to have been in a relationship for five years.., then I am willing to postulate that you at least have a maturity level great enough to make a mature decision.
I do hope that your moral values and scruples are up to the challenge
2006-08-13 00:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by bigbill4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the twoboyfriend to have your name in History
2006-08-13 00:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading your previous questions I can see you are pretty screwed up. You would be doing him a favor if you leave him.
2006-08-13 00:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋