I have a lifetime of guilt, despair, heartache, and memories I just don't want anymore. There is far, far to much to delve into details but nonetheless I want rid of it once and for all.
Any real answers?
2006-08-12 23:44:19 · 9 answers · asked by lackluster 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Pray to God.
Knowing that He forgives you no matter what terrible things you have done. Admitting your sin, guilts and recieve His grace - believe that you are saved by His grace.
I've done that and I found peace in Him. Be blessed
2006-08-12 23:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by tania_la_nina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
instead of worrying so much about yesterday, begin focusing on tomorrow's memories.
Years from now, you will be remembering today. Go build happier memories. Volunteer, help people, do random acts of kindness, and celebrate life. You have alot of years left and there is still time to build a better life.
I don't know if you are religious or not but it helps clear my conscience when I pray for forgiveness too.
2006-08-13 06:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by smith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule one is to Forgive and Forget (that is forgive others and yourself for mistakes in the past, forget about them and RESOLVE never to repeat them). Rule two is We all have it (heartaches and despair and mistakes are all common for all of us. Not just you! - accept it). Rule three is Learn your lessons from past (that simple). And finally, resolve yourself to make things better for yourselves and others from now on. So you know in this road you continue to strive to be good, and you will have your share of further despair and heartache etc. and you will forgive and forget them and be happy again and you will not commit same mistake twice.
Best of luck.
2006-08-13 06:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Priekahm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 choices..
1 go tell them to the people affected, they might forgive u, even if they dont, it will go away,
2 tell them to each and everyone u know, then u wont feel so guilty after some time, when everyone start judging u..
i prefer the 1st one
lol
2006-08-13 06:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by mosu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask God to forgive you...through His Son, Jesus Christ...if you are sincere, he will take away those thoughts..it is true..you are a sinner like the rest of us, and all you have to do is call on Him and confess your sins, and your sincere regrets and sorrow over them..he amazingly will comfort you..see if I am not right God Bless
2006-08-13 07:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe write a letter explaining all of the things above when finished writing burn the letter saying I am now releasing any negative feelilngs I have. Also try saying sorry to those who are still in your life
2006-08-13 07:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just try to sort through it all, forgive people who've hurt you, forgive yourself, and just let things go. Imagine it all going in to a ballon and letting it go, all the crapyou have no control over, and all the crap you want to let go off. That's all the advice I can offer you, dude.
2006-08-13 06:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can either put it in the past and forget it eever happened or you can come clean and admit your guilt to everyone you hurt, this way you have a clear conscienceand basically you put closure on everything your guilty of
2006-08-13 07:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"with acceptance"
2006-08-13 11:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋