not mine ,my neice 's ex fiance said he wanted a break and she found out he is seeing someone else,it makes me sooooooooo mad.i want to kick him very hard in the goolies!!!!!!!!!!!ba*****
2006-08-12 23:22:45 · 27 answers · asked by bobcat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol your choice of language really makes me laugh...but just think at least she found that out before she had his baby! He'd have been the shittest dad around I bet you. One of those dads who misses the birth because hes screwing another woman...See some guys want to know why you dont trust em and you have to check up on em well theres an explanation.....they are right arseholes sometimes! Love isnt always complicated, I'm sure she'll find someone special enough one day. Well what you do...is you wee in a stew or something...some woman put dog poo in his food and watched him eat it after she found out. ( might gain a court case though!! lol )...just get his favorite pair of trousers cut the crotch out and sew in a peice of material that says 'CHEATER' on it...he'll probably not even notice! But I think if he's like that then he's not worth it and there's room for her to find a real diamond! Talk about plots of revenge,dodgy chat up lines, and all the stupid things he used to say and do over a bottle of wine, she'll be back in shape in no time! Laughing away thankful he's not hers anymore. But theres one thing...his head was used in the end and not his brain...he tried braking it off before it got too deep, its better that than him marrying her and still carrying it on, he probably didnt know how to get out of the commitment if hes still screwing around. Although it was the reason why, hes gone have a real parade with her. I hope shes feeling better about it soon, I know it wont be that soon though. My thoughts are with her for finding a new better loving...HONEST guy.
Whatever happens as long as your neice stays faithful in her relationships she can always say "I was worth so much more than that!!"
" So many people will come and go on the train that is life, but only the true honest ones you can count on will be there for the whole journey...the other were just trying to get somewhere! There wont be many left aboard at the end but the ones who are will each be worth a billion of those who leave at their stop"
2006-08-12 23:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man. I will admit that there are a lot of bad men out there. On the other hand there are as equally many crappy women out there. I know. I was in the same boat as your niece. I almost married a woman 10 years ago. I thought I found the one until I found out she was cheating on me.
So the moral of the story is that woman can be just as cruel, hurtful, shallow, and fallable as any man can be.
2006-08-13 06:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the heart changes. People change, relationships grow and fade. I appreciate your outrage, but can you be certain that this may not be for the best? If his heart wandered here, is this not better than once their married or have kids? This is just Gods way of letting them know that this was not to be. I am sorry for your niece's hurt but men are no more horrible than women. We all are exactly what we are, no more no less.
2006-08-13 06:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having a little sister who is with a piece of sh!t who got another girl pregnant after their first son and while they were together and just acted like it was nothing and having that little sister stay with him and have her second child with him. And to add to that...her boyfriend is the son of her older sisters (not me) husband who is also a piece of sh!it who won't keep a job and abuses her. Is that not Jerry Springer? Could this get any worse?
2006-08-13 06:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, it's like they think they're doing us a favour by being with us, and therefore don't need to behave! Part of it is though, I think, that they get away with what we let them. I'm not blaiming the 'sisterhood' and your niece sounds like she just got scummed on by a really really horrible person, but when women put up with loads of sh*t they don't do them, or future women, any favours!
At least we know they're not all like that - I'm just not sure where the decent ones are hiding!!
2006-08-13 07:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you suppose he wanted a break for, so he could join a monastary and reflect upon life for a while?!!! Maybe he was having doubts and wanted to make sure he was in the relationship for the right reasons, at least he asked for a break instead of going behind her back, you cannot make someone love you or stay with you and it isnt a crime for them to leave, she will get over it and move on, sent with love xxx I hope it works out for the best.
2006-08-13 06:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know alot of men are total twats and trust me i normally find myself attracted to them for some reason!! Bad boys cant stay away, i understand how you feel about your ex mine did the same to me & im glad because some other poor cow can have him loosers. We are too good for all that crap x
2006-08-13 09:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her out and about, she'll soon forget about him with all the new hot totty to look at. Feel for her though cus going through the same things and it does hurt, but it does get better!
2006-08-13 07:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Liane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life. The world is full of different people. Good and bad.
Unfortunately we do not have a radar to tell the difference before we get to know them.
2006-08-13 06:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get kick him in the goolies that really hurts us just get revenge thats way better
2006-08-13 06:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by whatsmynamel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋