2006-08-12 23:14:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you are so loser
2006-08-12 23:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by abo al hzm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone asked yesterday in another section something similar to this. She was told that sex hurt & she was QUITE concerned.
Before I start, realize that after the wedding, you & your groom are going to be exhausted. You might want to cuddle and get used to the idea of the fact that you are indeed married. After a night's rest. might be better.
Realize too, that this first time is going to be awkward. Rarely is the first time THE BEST, so don't get upset if it's clumsy and not what all the hype is. Your muscles may be tense, you'll wonder what he's thinking, are you doing it good enough? Trust me, with a little practice it'll get better.
Take your time. Enjoy the process. Allow your body to respond the way it was designed to do. Allow yourself to become properly lubricated. Being nervous mind hinder this, so it wouldn't be a bad idea to have some Astroglide on hand, just in case.
When you BOTH feel ready for penetration, have your husband enter slowly, little increments at a time. Allow the vaginal muscles to stretch. After he is fully inside you, the action can begin. :) You may be slightly tender later that day or the next, but that will be about it. You'll be just fine.
2006-08-13 03:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 11:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear sexlover, i don't know if you are male or female, but anyway, the rules are simple! there are no rules. Just relax, if ur future husband or wife is more experienced, let him or her start and just let your body tell you what u like to do. If you love ur future spouse the sex is just another way to show him or her your love.Just be gentle, relaxed and leave all ur worries out of the bedroom. The biggest mistake you can make is to be nervous or to think too much of how your body looks etc.
2006-08-12 23:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never have sex yet? I am surprised. Read all about a woman's body from books and websites online. Also look at a drawing from medical websites that show the "clitoris and vagina hole". Sex isnt scary or something you have to learn. The only thing to remember is the man must rub and excite your clitoris then have sex after that. It will feel best for you that way.
2006-08-13 06:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It will be more fun if you take things slowly and just do what feels right. Your partner will probably have a few ideas too.
2006-08-12 23:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search yahoo for sex education
2006-08-12 23:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by athame 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT ASK ME
thx for the 2 points
2006-08-12 23:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you plan it, it will not come out the way you want it to. So just relax and go with the flow.
2006-08-14 12:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstnight is not for sex, thats the day u need to understand each other. and based on ur exchange of views and likes and dislikes, sex can be done anyother day also, first is to understand eachother.
2006-08-13 02:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by samusdo s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you will both be nervous. If you love each other its not about what positions to do -thats just for one night stands lol!
Just go with the flow, thats all!!
2006-08-12 23:17:23 · answer #11 · answered by Caterina24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋