ok been dating this girl now for 4 months and i love her. I havn't told her that i love her yet. The reason why iam a little confused and mad is when she goes out with her friends she won't call me at all. It makes me feel like i don't mean anything to her. We are both college students so she has no excuses.lol. She has done this from the time we met and i figured it would stop when she was having more feelings for me but it didn't i havn't talked with her in 3 days now and on top of everything else she said that she would call. How should i approach this with her with out making her mad. thanks
2006-08-12 23:01:20 · 8 answers · asked by david h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get to Leykis 101!!!!
Stop making mistakes with women!
2006-08-13 00:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her in a friendly way, don't accuse. Start with, "so what have you been doing lately, we haven't spoken in a while and I'd like to catch up", or something similar. Make sure to keep your tone of voice level, and try to make it sound trivial, like it's not that important. There are a few possibilities for what this could all be about. Maybe she's waiting for you to call, because she doesn't want to seem needy, or something similar. Girls tend to have lots of anxieties. Another possibility is that she doesn't really love you, and that the relationship is simply convenient for her. In any case, talk about it with her. As long as you don't sound accusing or angry, she shouldn't get mad.
2006-08-13 06:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to talk with her tell her how it makes you feel when she says that she will call you and never does . maybe it would help if u did tell her that you do love her let her no just how u feel about her. and that you don't like what she is doing. and when u talk to her don't be mad at the the you talk to her .ask her why she does it and does her friends mean more to her then you . and if she gets mad then let her get mad. she is acting like she does not care about you and that is not right . and if nothing does not change then you need to break up with her . i hope that this will help some and good luck i wish you the best
2006-08-13 06:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by amandalove2283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love her and you must think she loves you, so if that is true then she should be glad if you confront her with any problems that might arise in your relationship.If you are going to have a lasting loving relationship you must be able to communicate with each other. Just say " I have something to talk to you about. I want our relationship to be base on trust and good communication. You tell her what is bothering you and ask if there is any problems with you that she would like to talk about.
2006-08-13 06:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by cindy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, first tell me how can u date a gal for 4 months without telling her that u love her. ok, now u think she doesn`t care about u. u shud keep that fear out of your mind and just be open to her. propose to her in a cool manner. be cool n confident. she may start liking u soon if she doesn`t yet.
2006-08-13 06:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont keep trying to call her cos then you'll annoy her but just dont make it out to be some massive deal, just say you would prefer to hear from her more...
2006-08-13 06:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be blunt, but I think this girl's not really into you. If she were, she would give you her full attention.
Yeah, how I wish I'd accept that fact myself.
Saw this on Oprah :P
2006-08-13 06:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by daniel29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell her how you feel try some tips on this site on how to do that
2006-08-13 06:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋