2006-08-12 22:51:17 · 18 answers · asked by stephaniewilliams414 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if it's a man-man relationship. Both people should be in charge of a relationship. It is a mutual thing, not a place for one sex to control.
2006-08-12 23:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be a partnership in the relationship. Because if the whole relationship is sat on the guy, he might see it as too stressful and end up cheating and then breaking up with you. But for some guys they like the having all the control. Which isn't good for the girl either because she could probably feel stressed out and pissed off that she doesn't have a say in anything. So its always best to work 50/50 in everything.
2006-08-13 07:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh! I don't think a relationship should be controlled in anyway. It should be mutual and agree on whatever together. Now if the boyfriend wants to take charge he can but that'll require a wedding ring and even than he won't take control all the way.
2006-08-13 05:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not with everything. One has to be fair. Certain things women are better, while men are better in other areas.
Say for instance, I have this feeling that women are better in educating children and may be also household budgets. But that does not mean that men cannot do a better job.
Also most women claimed that they are better cooks - but there are more male chefs at restaurants and hawker/food centres.
2006-08-13 06:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by JP E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With some things maybe, but not everything. Most decisions should be agreed upon by both. Men are the protectors and women are the balancers.
2006-08-13 05:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do, the man should take the lead, however he should be mature and wise if that's going to happen, but the woman also needs to participate and not act indifferent towards his decisions or suggestions, nor there should be a lack of interest, or apathy.
2006-08-13 06:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, relationships are a give and take, there will be moments when he has control, and moments when you need to take control, if you allow him to dominate your relationship, he won't respect you. How many rulers do you know that have a healthy respect for there subjects?
2006-08-13 05:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Bayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it should be completely equal, the point of a relationship is to share and do things together, it should not be dominant on either side
2006-08-13 05:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by c3345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if there is love between both then there is no one the should be in charge
2006-08-13 06:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by nylosboy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way a lot of mine have been but I prefer to share a relationship with my partner.
I don't have a problem letting a woman have her way when she feels strongly about something...
2006-08-13 05:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋