I love this guy a lot........He means the world to me......
He does not love me at all !!
I get very angry on him if he passes a remark of disliking me...
But then i cry my heart out.....for hours together...I FEEL MISERABLE !!!
Why does my anger change to pain ???
Should i really look forward to him anymore ??
Or should i let him go...he does not belong to me !!
2006-08-12 22:44:56 · 31 answers · asked by ♥ cute_n_lovely♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love this guy a lot........He means the world to me......
He does not love me at all !!
I get very angry on him if he passes a remark of disliking me...
But then i cry my heart out.....for hours together...I FEEL MISERABLE !!!
Why does my anger change to pain ??? Why does he hurt me so much ??
Cant a girl fall in luv wwith a guy ???
Should i really look forward to him anymore ??
Or should i let him go...he does not belong to me !!
2006-08-12 22:47:02 · update #1
Sorry i pasted it twice !!
2006-08-12 22:48:34 · update #2
I can understand your problem, its very difficult for you either to accept him as he's or to leave him.
But honey.... Its life we have to move on.
Look give him and yourself a chance.
May be he's showing you his attitude, NOW YOU SHOW HIM YOUR ATTITUDE.
Do something that would impress him. give yourself a new changeover that suits you...etc...etc.
(but be natural and be yourself, don't over do anything).
Best of luck !!!
2006-08-13 03:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not your man. So leave it alone. It would be one thing if you were in a relationship with him or did the deed. But from what I'm reading you did niether.
If you want him that bad, find a way to get him one on one even though he says he dislikes you. Get creative and make a serious move on him. Hell, get naked for him and go for it (blow him or have sex). That will work but do it in a way that he will think your not acting like a whoe. Tell him the truth.
2006-08-13 06:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there is ups and down...
I am believe that there are always something that never cannot be reality as we want.i did faces alot of this kind of matter.but we still need to live on,right?i have a situation whereby the guy already have girl friend and he still can pretends that he wants to be nice to me as he could not have a relationship with me.but all that just an act.he asked me to stop sms and wait for him to contact me,but till now no action at all.so i know what happens and he just a liar who just take advantage on me. since he do not want to contact me,so i better just stop.i wish you can let go him.he is not the one for us and we just need to face the fact. there will be someone arrive for you when the time is right.and you think back today and feel that you are very silly.
Stop your tears for guys as it is useless.no one will appreciate or pity us..just give up and continue life...
Good Luck..
2006-08-13 05:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Luv leave him alone let him do him and you find someone that will love you as much as you love them okay and don't feel embarassed about cry i do the same thing i get so mad that i have to cry to let all the stress out
2006-08-13 05:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by SXXINEZZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is good when the two people reciprocate the same thing, but this is not so in ur case. u cant do a thing to make some1 love u. i can understand the pain u r going through but u'll have to face it. forget abt this guy, he does not deserve ur love, u'll surely get some1 who deserves ur true love, just have some patience. dont waste ur time on such a fool.
GOOD LUCK N KEEP SMILING
2006-08-13 05:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, being loved by someone is a gift, if he makes you feel bad, knowing you have those feelings for him, then he's undeserving of that gift, as for your anger changing to pain, it's what happens when someone you feel for is breaking your heart, it's human, it's normal, and most of all; it sucks!
2006-08-13 05:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who returns your love and affection..
Aw, what exactly do you love about a guy who doesnt love you and obviously dislikes you and makes you angry, cry and miserable?
2006-08-13 05:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by HaloVivian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him dear cuz its no use if u keep on loving a guy even when he dont love u n passes remarks on u cuz he wud only use u if u still keep on tryin to get in relation with him, divert ur attention from him n search for someone else, u know what the sayin goes...Marry a person who loves u , dont marry a person whom u love....
2006-08-13 09:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ajay G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection hurts a LOT--
So let him go -- and find someone else.
Learn from it as well, and maybe you will find that you fall in love way too quickly. The best love is the one that grows mutually, then it lasts...
Good Luck... :)
2006-08-13 05:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is because of ur age, i was also the same at 16-21, but now i changed and understood life, so searching a new one.
2006-08-13 11:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by anoop p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is I believe deep down in your heart you know that he is not the one.
My Uncle said to me as a little girl, " prepare yourself for your husband" in other words, if want to be love as much as you love that person, love you self first, so that "anger", God can mend.
2006-08-13 05:50:39 · answer #11 · answered by Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋