you really can ... in most cases they are too dence to pick up on details. So the best one it to start holding his arm when you walk....(so you don't slip on the ice you are not feeling so well.etc), lean on his arm during movies, hug him good bye, and even the totally obviouse hint...get a back rub. If he does not pick up on any of that ... either tell him you like him or give up.
2006-08-12 22:49:51
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answered by SARAH 2
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DISCLAIMER: I am a male. As such, while I can provide a distinctive perspective on the issue, it is common knowledge that men seem to understand other men less than women understand other women. Read with caution.
Now, with that done, to help with your predicament. You seem to want the guy to take the first obvious step in deepening the relationship, as you are content to use hints. This is completely acceptable, as it is often standard that the man begins the process. Mix, as unsuspiciously as possible, into your conversations remarks about relationships and your love of them. For example, remark how wonderful it is that So and So and his girlfriend have been together happily for a few months, and add that it would be nice to have that. This will let the guy know that you are out looking.
Once you make sure he is aware of your status, convince him that HE is the one to change that. Tip (1) SMILE at him as often as possible (without being suspicious). It will bolster his self-confidence, as he will translate these smiles as you being pleased that he is there. Tip (2) Be yourself. If you go out of your way to attempt to "woo" him, he will take these changes as you acting weirdly and distance himself. Finally, should your man be a little slow or nervous, Tip (3) ask him to go somewhere with you (i.e. movie, dinner, etc). Now there is a HUGE difference between this and telling him "I like you". If you just suggest you two hang out, ALONE, it will provide him an opportunity to recognize all your signals and take that step.
Remember, in all of this, discretion and subtelty are the key. Don't scare this seemingly good prospect away.
2006-08-13 05:57:44
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answered by Gatsby Follower 3
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Honestly, if you like him as you say you do, you most likely give him special attention and reserve special comments and whatnot for him. It's difficult to say what you should do because guys are fickle. Some are too nice to really say how they feel, and sometimes that may not be how you feel. I won't tell you how to let him know, but I will say that if you keep sending signals and he just keeps moving along as usual, don't keep waiting around for him to wake up. You deserve someone who will acknowledge you and your "signals". You should read the book, He's just not that into you. I'm not saying he's not into you, but reading it was super funny and surprisingly insightful. It's not by any means one to follow to the letter, but it had allot of helpful insight.
God Bless
T
2006-08-13 05:55:09
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answered by tanaramclean11 2
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You can try the following;
1. Ask the guy how much does he rate you on the scale of 1 - 10?
2. Ask him to go out with you quite often so that he realizes that you want to spend time with him which indicates you like him
3. Try to have eye lock with him and say it through your eyes.
4. Touch his hand accidently
5. Do combine study with him
6. Show jealosy when he talks about other girl
7. Praise about other smart guys in front of him to make him feel jealous.
and many more...
2006-08-13 05:58:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Be cool about things. Set up a situation that you can have some one on one time. And then work the situation. Try to make it so there is physical contact and then let him push the envelope to your satisfaction.
I had a girl do that to me. Everything was okay. It made things easier. She really opened up to everything.
2006-08-13 05:51:46
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answered by lhm1968 3
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why do you have to hint? just talk to him about it, it sounds like he's into you too if you guys have conversations about the things you have in common and how awesome you are. but whatever you do, do not sleep with him for a REALLY long time. it ruins everything.
2006-08-13 05:48:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Elena and all you other girls, take it from a guy that has played the friend card, it never works, if you want him tell him straight out, chances are his feelings for you are mutual. If not you have nothing to lose. He said your awesome so I doubt that he will let things get wierd.
2006-08-13 05:51:26
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answered by Evasive tactics 2
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Try to spend a lot of time with him without over doing it. Also try to ask him about himself, then reference to what he said in future conversations. Get him related gifts, little ones, like, if he says he likes a particular band, get him some souvenir from them. Once you feel brave enough, ask him out yourself! Don't just sit around waiting for guys to take interest in you- take interest in them and act on it. Take control of your own life, don't just go with the flow- swim.
2006-08-13 05:53:46
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answered by Israely Jew 3
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er... just say it i think.....the reason why we as humans never yeah proclaim it is because we fear of rejection. actually i don't see aything wrong with this type of proclamation but i think i am quite a failure in relationship matter...but this is my view...
My case is different cause it is man to woman not woman to man....but yeah if i am the guys and you know keep talking to you....I think i as the guys perpective like you....maybe he also want to confess but also this fear of rejection problem. But i bet you 100% he will recieve it!!! GO for it....good luck:)...PS:I also want to ask her out but then don't know something stop me haiz
2006-08-13 06:08:23
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answered by Anonymous
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same situation girl, i dont know. Just when saying goodbye start kissing him on the cheek and then someday when you had a great time together just kiss him on the lips instead?
2006-08-13 05:47:27
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answered by Anonymous
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