hi there folkes ive been a good dad to my son and his mum has made serious alligations against me so she wont let me see my son at all now . alligations which are untrue now i cant see my son now which i normally have him on the weekends or whenever i can see him during the holidays etc, all this have affected my home life with my woman and at work i get ratty with them etc, help me please coz its heartbreaking that a woman can be so cruel even though we split up after 5 months together which was ten years ago our son is ten and she has had 2 more kids by different men well all her 5 kids are from differant men where do i go from here i dont want to get social service involved coz that would really mess up my sons life so any serious answers please i would like to hear from you thanks for your time
2006-08-12 22:23:35 · 5 answers · asked by rastaman D. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well; father-son r/s is a sensitive one
n fathers r so important ....
u may get d court involved but...
hey; to giv u a sincere advice
dont ya think ur son's jst 10 n the entire court involvement would leave a bad effect on ur son
a 10yr old doesnt really knw wat's gud or bad -
wat's right or wrong...
n tellin' ur son that his mum's not good mayb is not d right thing..
all i can say is b patient n give ur son a little time soon he'll b a teenager n hav a better understanding f things n den perhaps u can talk things wid him n let him make the decision f stayin wid u..
n hey continue 2 b d loving father dat u r
n remembr u do owe something 2 ur woman too..
so stop being mad at those ppl around u..
those ppl who really love u..
it's a tough time but hey dnt ya worry everything's gonna b alright soon
may God bles u n may things get alright very soon..
2006-08-12 23:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by charoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Retain a good counselor (lawyer) and raise your own brand of legal hell against your son's mother. Have a judge order her to observe your fair joint custody rights. And I'd have Social Services investigate her (again, a skilled counselor can really volley a good shot at the boy's mom), someone I feel really needs a good looking into.
Listen and heed the advice your lawyer gives you. Prep up for a battle, and speak to your son and have him ready to do the same.
2006-08-13 05:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it to court if its not true she don't have a case you have the right to see your son no matter what she says and if i were you i would get full custody of him if she has five kids where you think she is making them at with all diffrent men slim get your son
2006-08-13 05:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by SXXINEZZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get yourself a lawyer to straighten this whole thing out. Your Son needs you at this time in his life she can not keep you from him. Let the courts handle this for you. Good luck
2006-08-13 05:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kristine B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to prove that the 'allegations' are exactly that, regain access to your son. It is rare a court would withdraw access without good reason.
If she is as bad as you say you should consider taking full custody
2006-08-13 05:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋