if u luv sm1 & smday u felt botherd from her/him, bcoz of smth ur partner did!will u 4get the whole thing jst bcoz u luv him/her?
or there should b another way 2 solve the prob?
@ the same time will u leave the person u luv and keep on luvin him/her?( u wont hate)
2006-08-12 22:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i love some one i 4give him....and maybe he'll alawys be doing the same stuff that bothers me but i'll then understand that i can't change this person 100%. coz i loved him for what he is!!
right???
mwaaaaaaaa!
2006-08-12 23:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a one time thing that went wrong, you talk and resolve. If it a repetitive thing happening, then the 2nd party doesn't love you. It is a one way love.
Human love thrives on meeting the expectations of both parties. The expectations are met one way repeatedly and nothing or negatives coming from the 2nd party, whatever love that developed, slowly withers away and one of the parties becomes miserable and disheartened. In such a case of one-sided human love, it won'r work; you will be better off cutting the relationship and look somewhere else.
2006-08-13 05:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by stvenryn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my own personal experience,when you Love someone,you have to completely and absolutely be prepared to bear the absolute worse about them.This does not mean that you turn a blind eye to the bad things they do,but it means you should try and iron out your problems without conteplating separation.
If the person you Love still Loves you,its reason enough for the two of you to stay together.Reasons for sepapration are only limited to the very worst of situations,like multiple cheating.
Ofcourse its hard to forget,but you shud find it inyour heart to forgive the person you love,and refrain from reminding the person of the things she did wrong each time you argue!This really breaks down partner communication.
Be honest with yourselves;say everything you feel.Cry together,and take time to really talk,and know each other's likes and dislikes.......Be gentle!
Good luck.
2006-08-13 05:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not selfish, love does not hold grudges, love is honest, love is forgiving. If you truly love someone who has hurt you, then you talk to that person and explain how you feel and give them the chance to help you solve the problem. Often we love someone more than they love us back, and that can hurt. Talk to them open and honestly about how you feel and find out how they feel. Then you can move forward in whatever direction that is.
2006-08-13 09:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Just Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never forget, but remember and learn. Forgive, forgive because you love that person. When all is said and over with, love is the only thing you have and that's when you determined "how strong is it?" Its from love that easies the pain, that teaches you both how to cop, how to "do 4 one another with LOVE."
2006-08-13 05:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Divine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately it is one of the hardest task to let your love becoz you love him/her. i had to had done this i tell you i still love him and heonly porposed me around 3 years ago it was love at first sight and after one year he had a new girlfriend i felt like killing him me myself if you love him/her make hih/er realise that dont be late before he/she be away tell her how much do u love her him keep asking about her from ur common friend about him her then when the person about it she will feel happy and secured it works alot best of luck
2006-08-13 05:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
care fo that person nd b sweet nd lovin.thats the best u cud do to a person u luv
2006-08-13 05:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness takes time to forget as does leaving. Depends what they did as to what you should do
2006-08-13 05:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem confused to me... If you truely love someone, then you dont have to ask such questions. Just go witth the flow.
2006-08-13 05:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by chand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.i see love like this.love is stronger than any flaw there is if you really love him or her then whatever they did u can see past and forgive them and if they love u as much as u love them they wont do it again.
2006-08-13 05:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by ]|I(¯¨`v^•×•·· ·mî$z µñd®$†º0d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋