Now ladies, is it me or is it the male stupidity? I try to tell my dude that when it comes to sex for women just pumping in and out don't do crap for us you have to stimulate certain areas in order for a women to have an orgasm. He believes a women has a orgasm everytime like men and I continue to say that is not the case. Now ladies am I right - Don't it take a little more to make you get a orgasm the way you can give yourself one?? Or are you a faker -- acting like a porn star screaming and ain't really getting s**t? Pumping in and out don't give you nothing but a headache and bad hair:)
2006-08-12 21:41:06 · 11 answers · asked by Miss. Tee98 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i need more then some in & out shite. And i definetly cant fake it. I might even hurt ya feelings since you hurt mine by not doing a damn thing for me. Cant nobody do me better than me so far.
2006-08-12 21:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what the best thing you can do for yourself and him in this situation? Introduce him to pornographic literature! I'm a male, only 20, but I've been reading the erotic literature since I was like 14 (hmmm maybe the time I started coincided with the development of other habits?) and, as much as I hate to brag, I get complimented a bunch when it comes to my "skills".
Guys really do have this idea that they *have* to give their girl an orgasm and that girls love a guy to be uber-manly and "jackhammer" her to death. Most guys totally disregard the ideas of anticipation and escalation when it comes to fooling around. It's a sad story but you need to at least try to help him out.
BTW lots of guys think they "have" to give their girl an orgasm every time because they think girls won't enjoy it if they don't orgasm. Guys don't know any better because so many people place so much importance on orgasms and when us guys don't have orgasms it can be very painful in the form of "blue-balls". When a guy starts stressing over giving a girl an orgasm it stresses him out, turns her off, and can make him feel "unsatisfactory". Let me know if I'm wrong in my assumption...
2006-08-12 21:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has never had much experiance on the matter.
so instead of being a a** about it take the time and show him.
if u talk to him the way u r talking on here, then u will never get the results u want.
after all every woman is different and each one of u have ur thing.
just a thought from a stupid man
2006-08-12 21:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I know I have to have my oral before doing the whole intercourse. And even light kissing around my nipples and on my neck is great too. But I'm a total oral girl all the way. As the old saying goes "No lickee no stickee".
2006-08-12 22:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only are you correct in all you say but some men just aren't good enough to get a woman so aroused that she will ever have an orgasm .they just 'don't know ''what to do or where to do it
2006-08-12 21:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl has to be stimulated all over for the best results before sex! ie lips cheecks neck boobs tummy and then yeah that. 4 play is the best before sex.:)
2006-08-12 21:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by jackie84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife prefers, the old "in out in out", unfortunatly, because I like going down too.
2006-08-12 22:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to kiss you in the neck in very hot way during intercourse
it always works.
2006-08-12 21:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by john w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a real man who knows what a clitoris is and how to work it
2006-08-12 21:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you guy needs lessons or something
2006-08-12 21:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋