What would you value the most? Your family, Career, Your own family (with husband and kids), Adventure, Personal interests? etc etc?
2006-08-12 21:09:13 · 16 answers · asked by Phaedrus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was married? My family, all of them, my husband, parents, etc. They'd come first. Even now my famliy comes first, my parents and siblings. But I think my career is also important, my family comes first but career maybe around 2nd or 3rd. With out my career, my family might suffer financially and I don't want my kids having to starve, that's just not right. A kid should be taken care of. And I love adventure, but it's not needed all the time. And if anything, I'd take a family adventure, hiking or something. And personal intrests when I have my own family will probably be incorporated with daily life, with my kids, like painting, I could teach to my kids. But they and they're interests will be more important.
2006-08-12 21:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life there are different priorities. I value my job because as a teacher I work with five year olds who sometimes need me. As a person wanting emotional support, I value my parents, husband and friends. As a person one day who hopes to have kids, I will always put my kids first. Nothing can ever replace a child that comes from love and God. I would love to be a stay at home mom when I have kids if it is financially possible. Sometimes, women have to make their career as important as their kids because of their kids. The career is what puts food on the table and clothes on the babies
2006-08-13 04:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse family would be #1 and my career 2nd. Although in reality there are many single parents as myself in which sometimes work 2 to 3 jobs just to make ends meet and we always try our hardest to spend as much time with our family however there isn't enough time in the day to do so - As a single parent you really don't have that much adventure in your life - all the adventure I see is in my 2nd job (front desk @ a hotel) you just see the strangest things and @ the office (infidelity, people get fired, drama)
2006-08-13 04:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Camille L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I answer, Chi, the first one who answered... is a jackass, dont listen to him.
Okay, well I value friends the most, and then my career, I'm only 15, but I really want to be somebody. I have a passion for acting and that's one of the most important things right now, to get there and hopefully get very far. :)
2006-08-13 04:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes first, no doubt about it. I hurts to see people of the same blood suffering. Good friends come next, because if you have no family one day, who can you depend on? Then there's career, as money is just as important to keep ourselves alive.
2006-08-13 04:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Earthling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm My family>Personal Interests>Career>etc...
2006-08-13 04:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own family- my fiance is the center of my world, and we base all other decisions, such as career, other family, travel, etc. on what the other thinks. It works quite nicely for us.
2006-08-13 04:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by kimberelena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family, my grandparents and many people 2 say. 4 myself is my body, weight, beauty, and most importantly sex.
2006-08-13 04:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family/friends,personal interests,career.
in that order.
and i won't have a husband or kids.
2006-08-13 04:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the above
2006-08-13 04:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋