I started seeing this guy like a month ago, he's got a 4 year old daughter & 6 month old son from 2 different women. Anyway, today I recieve a phone call from a girl asking me what is my cell number doing in his cell because she's he's girlfriend & they've been together for 4 years which makes no sense cos I asked if she's on of the mom's to his kids & she said no but at the same time it dosen't add up cos she said she lives with him & I've been in his house and there's nothing in there that says "A woman lives here" & met his grandma (who he lives with), sister, co-workers, cousins & friends (he introduces me to her as his GF every time the time he sees someone he knows)...But none of this makes any sense to me...What do you make of this & how should I confront him on this (I want girls to give me a good scheme that will make him fu*king sweat!) What should I do. What is your opinion on all this???
2006-08-12 20:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lolateeny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got to his job like every single day day cos he works in a barbershop & I spend hours there daily. & everyone there knows me as his girlfriend...
2006-08-12 20:59:44 · update #1
& we did agree to be exclusive...He's an extremely jealous guy!!
2006-08-12 21:04:13 · update #2
I only read the first 2 sentences. Stay away unless you are a drama queen. You are getting into a mess with an idiot.
2006-08-12 20:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by J F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be quite frank I think this girl is either an ex of his or some current girl that he's had a fling with that is extremely jealous of you. Sometimes a girl will get obsessed with a guy even when they aren't together (anymore).
There's only one thing you need to do... talk to your guy and see what the deal is. When you answers you, do your best to read his body language to see if he's lying and make sure his story adds up. Has he been honest to you in general during the relationship? If not then it might be bad news.
I think a good idea would be to wait for him to go to the bathroom, pick up his cell and look up the number of the girl who called you (hopefully you still have the phone # in your phone) and if she's a contact in there then ask him who she is when he comes back from the bathroom. I mean she was obviously with him if she found your cell phone # so it's just a matter of finding out "who" she is.
Now the thing that sucks about asking this on the internet is that none of us know who you are and what kind of person you are. A lot of this could just totally be in your head for all we know. Anyway assuming you're a rational-thinking person I think you will figure it out. Luckily you've only invested 1 month with this guy so it's not like all your eggs are in one basket or you've invested years with him. Good luck.
Oh and BTW I'm assuming you two have made some sort of "rule" or some sort that there will be no outside fooling around going on... you would both only be with each other for now. If not then you don't have much to complain about.
2006-08-12 20:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him..You also gotta think what was he doing with another female and how did she ever get a hold of his cell phone...Two kids isn't bad if it was with the same girl but not to have Two different baby Momma's....Thats Double baby Momma drama....He seems like he gets bored and goes to the next girl......I think you should find some one better in my opinion this cat seems like a player....
2006-08-12 21:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pelon69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just a jelous woman that wants to mess with your relationship and your head. You should confront him about it. Don't show you're completely calm about it so he knows that it bothered you but do talk to him before taking on any "schemes."
Good luck! I hope he isn't cheating!
2006-08-12 20:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's having his cake and eating it.haven't you ever watched lifetime movies **** like this happens all day everyday.I think you girls should be civil w/each other and all confront him at the same time or at least catch him in the act w/ one of you.if your wondering if he loves you honey don't take personal but he loves himself in a very selfish way.
2006-08-12 20:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he does not want to talk to you anymore. Why would a girl get his phone and look for your name and number then call you. No he does not want to talk to you anymore.
Or
Maybe he just made a prank call. Maybe thats it and wanted to know what you were going to say.
2006-08-12 20:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is going to come after you, and she is probably a girl who is still hung up on him. Tell him about her. He probably isnt aware of this.
2006-08-12 20:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any way you look at it he carries a lot of baggage. Is he worth it?
2006-08-12 20:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with JF
2006-08-12 20:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by kaiserchief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.
2006-08-12 20:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋