Them up after the 7;00 movie and take them to Jacks for a burger and shake... IS that just to young..they are in the 9th grade.. He plays VS football and she is a cheerleader.....???
2006-08-12 20:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. That age seems about right to me. He's not getting married. He's just going to a movie.
I think you somewhat chaperoning is a good first step.
2006-08-12 20:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds sweet and innocent. Dinner and a movie.
I don't think it's to young (even for them to sneak a little kiss)
The fact that he's willing for you to chaperon them, also indicates that he's confident that there's nothing wrong.
We forget how mature teenagers can be (and how immature also)
Simply think back to when you we're 14, despite the moral ideas of the time, don't you think you could have gone on a innocent date and enjoyed it?
2006-08-13 03:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anria A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too young, but I think the movie is out of the question. Here's whiy. Your son's job when he takes this girl out is to make sure she has a good time AND gauge her feelings for him by wacthing her actions and body language i.e (laughing, touching his arm gently, smiling and putting her head on his shoulder) If he takes her to a movie, he's relying on the movie to make all that happen for him while he sits helplessly for two hours. He'll be better off taking her bowling or minaiture golfing or something more hands on,wether or not its something they already know how to do. He be able to judge her attitue i.e. Does she have to win at all cost (your ideal daughter in law, I'm sure) does she encourage him when he does poorly (strikes out) and can she have fun with HIM, not just the activity. I think the burgers and shake are a great idea for afterwards. Let me just say that as a mom, YOU ROCK! I think more parents should be as involved in their kid's lives as you are. Issues like teen pregnancy and drug abuse can seriously impacted with a stong parent-child relationship. Thank you for supporting your son, whith a mom like you he's unlikely to end up with a bad woman, 'cause he knows what a good one is. Also realize that this is not just about your son, but about the people he comes in contact with now and in the future. YOU are impacting the world in ways you can't even imagine! One last thing, please go to www.doclove.com. I'll let you decide if your son's ready to listen to this altough I think he is. It contains no profanity or graphic language, its a website dedicated to teaching men how to attract and keep a quality woman in their lives. I think it will be valuable for him now that he's joining the dating world. You may or may not agree with EVERYTHING Doc love has to say, but if you see value in it for your son, please allow him the opportunity to benefit from this information, as I did. Thank you!
2006-08-13 04:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are asking for big trouble if i were you i would let them go and dont tell them you be there to siting in the back of the theater
then get up about 10 min before the movie over and go get the car do this one time to see if you can trust him then you can put your self at peace with your self.
2006-08-13 03:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No that is not to young. Just remember to always be there for your son when he is ready to talk. Before he goes on this outing with his friend explain to him how you expect him to behave.
2006-08-13 03:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by shan3328 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 2 overprotective. seriously, give em some space to be teenagers. if your son is a good boy, and she is a good girl you have nothing to worry about.
and if u r worried about SOMETHING that MAY happen if they're left in a burger joint, get some condoms and birthcontrol.
calm down mama.
2006-08-13 03:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
c'mon now. how is this kid ever going to get laid w/ his mom chaperoning him on dates?
j/k
but no I think you should trust in them to be good. Drop them off somewhere and pick them up afterwards. The farthest they could get would be second base but on the first date? C'mon. Let them grow up too.
2006-08-13 03:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound very responsible for "being there" for them....I have a daughter...same age group...a great kid active in school, sports, and church....I don't want her to date....but know it's going to happen too....Be a strong and trusting Mom
2006-08-13 03:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, thats ok, he has to see world. better now than later. love is something great, whats the worst that can happen??? is just a movie... he doesn't know anything (i think) of what is sex or whatever you think he'll probably do... let him have fun... you should be happy that he likes women, and he's not gay
2006-08-13 03:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by shu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to control that your girl is not going to preteen sex you should know how many hours they want to be with each other and no time it should be more than 5 hours and you should know at that time the girl's parent are at home or not , it's always a good idea to check that cause you know what happen if they have a specific place like that.
2006-08-13 03:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋