My sis and her BF broke up,because when they said they needed a break(not breaking up)he went and did something with my another girl.he said it was only a kiss,and when my sis asked if there was more he said no.this was in may,and at the beginning of the summer,they promised to have honesty.and so she went all this time thinking it was a kiss.then that girl kept stalking him.my sis got smart and figured that there should be a reason why she kept wanting to talk to him.so,she questions him on it.and he said it slowly,what really happened.it turns out they were in her parents room,and groping breast and butt happened.licking,and kisssing and hands down pants happened.my sister went histeric.she said everything that could be said and broke up with him.i was his friend alittle.he cried badly.i felt bad and wrote him a letter.when he went to the park to return her stuff,i seen him and gave him some m&ms and the letter.he cried. i feel like im on his side.Is that wrong of me? i dont know....
2006-08-12 20:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Porky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should write a book.
2006-08-12 20:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your loyalty does belong with your sister, but I understand how you feel. And he was probably just not telling the whole tale because he wanted things to work out with your sister...being on a break never works. He's probably heartbroken now, so your kindness is probably his one saving grace. So don't feel too bad. What you did was nice. And it's not your sis vs. him; you'll always be there for your sis, right?
2006-08-12 20:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by calliope 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is a prick tease. The guy is just trying to find someone to love and follow his testoserone. You are trying to take advantage. All of you should get into your books and not comeout until your at the top of your classes for grades. Playing around leads to having babies, and then its no longer playing around. At least wait until you have expereinced a little bit of life before you experience sex because you can have sex your whole life, but after sex, you can't have a whole life. Really.
2006-08-12 21:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see both sides of it. But friends come and go. Your family is always your family. There's nothing wrong with being nice to him; just remember that your sister is always going to be your sister and your loyalty should be with her. You should feel a little bad; he did hurt her, after all. He may be sorry, but it was still wrong.
2006-08-12 20:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you're on his side. I think he didin't realize that he did a mistake.And I know it must hurt your sister so badly.Sorry. But I think you're a good helper. He needs someone to make him better and so does your sister. There's a lot of work for you.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 07:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would help my sister heal, and at the same time, talk to her BF and show him his mistake but not to condemn him.
Don't take sides, stay neutral, not to be safe or something, it's only because you love them both. Right?
God bless!
2006-08-12 20:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by daniel29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stay out of it. Show concern for both sides but don't take sides. Taking sides will backfire later. Let them work it out. Respect their decisions.
2006-08-12 21:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd be a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear for both but don't take sides. That tends to back fire when you do.
2006-08-12 20:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think deep down you have feelings for this person. Maybe you should stay right out of this.
2006-08-12 21:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your loyalty belongs with your sister. What would you want her to do about someone that hurt you?
2006-08-12 20:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋