should i do it?
2006-08-12 19:54:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i know i just asked the same question..im just really desperate
2006-08-12 19:58:58 · update #1
I have met with several people whom I met on line, some are still good friends and some are not. I won't say to do it or not but if you do decide to meet this person do yourself a couple of favors and safety factors, meet them somewhere busy in public, let someone know you are going and have that person call you after about 30 mins when you are to meet. Let them know a "code" of some sorts that you are ok and have them call again in an hour. Also with the phone call if things aren't what you expect you have an "out" by telling the new comer you are sorry but you have to go help this friend or to that effect without having to be too mean sounding. On the other hand keep in mind you are meeting this person for the first time and if you don't hit it off right away you owe them nothing and can bow out gracefully at any point. As you should be aware many are nothing in person compared to what they are on line.
Try to get another friend to go with you, the new person should understand that you are a little bit nervy about meeting them in person.
Just my thoughts on this and hope you find some help from it. ;)
2006-08-12 20:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easy answer to give is no, you shouldn't. And that's what I really believe. But I understand wanting to meet him. Especially if he's seeming really into it. He may really like you and is really interested in pursuing a relationship with you. Or he could be really interested in having sex with you. No matter what he says, you can't be 100% sure. Not every guy online is a rapist, but do you really want to take the chance? And say he's not a rapist, he really just wants to date you. Ask yourself why he is so desperate that he's resorting to meeting girls online that he's never seen in person. There may be something really wrong with this guy. He could be weird or creepy or crazy... anything. He could be anything. It's different meeting a guy online vs. meeting a guy in real life, because most meetings in real life aren't initially intended to try to start a relationship, though most meetings online are intended for that or to have sex. That's just how it is. And that can make it awkward if you do finally meet. He's probably a really nice guy online. But that doesn't mean he really is like that in real life. If you really really want to meet him, try to find someone who knows him and ask them about him. Maybe if he's on myspace or something look at his friends list. (If his top 8 is mostly girls... definitely dont meet him).
2006-08-12 20:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I would be very careful cause you never know what might happen if you meet someone over the Internet. Things can be fifty/fifty. Meaning it can all be great and a good risk to take but it also might be the worst thing you can do.. You just cant trust everybody out there either in person or on line.. Be careful peace.
2006-08-12 19:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Angelina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it style of feels fairly scary. all and distinctive can lie about their treir existence there. It signifies that it's not safe practices. you have to be careful. yet because you really like him, you should meet then. yet tell your mothers and fathers about that and ask one, or 2 acquaintances to bypass with you contained in the gang position the position you imagine that's secure to fulfill with human beings you under no circumstances met in the previous. do not tell your city first. make confident that the guy you knew in skype is a reliable guy. If each thing run nicely, you're able to tell him the actuality. i'm confident if he's a reliable guy he will understand about the belongings you do. It on your safe practices existence.
2016-11-24 22:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by hatti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! He may seem nice online but there's a chance he may be an axe-wielding maniac. If you decide to meet him, take along many friends & family. Be sure the meeting takes place in a public area. In other words, don't do something stupid like meet him at his apartment or house.
Remember, be careful...
2006-08-12 19:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How lg . have you been talking to him. If you do decide to meet make sure in a public place. Just be very careful don't give where you livre etc. I know some others that got married doing great, but there are others that are bad. Talk to him alot before you make up you mine. Good luck Pem
2006-08-12 19:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said when you asked this same question five minutes ago, if you do, meet in public and let someone know where you're going.
2006-08-12 19:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you never know what you are getting into, but if you must meet make sure it is a very public place and be careful
2006-08-12 19:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by fetter_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEWARE. if you do at all make sure it is in a public place with lots of people and be sure to bring a couple friends along. anything other than that and you will be sorry.people can be anybody they want online but in person they are not.
2006-08-12 19:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by bob a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet through those computer IM camera things first. Then you'll be able to judge for yourself if you want to meet. And no matter how safe he makes you feel, bring pepper spray and a knife when you meet him, just in case....
2006-08-12 19:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋