i am a hefty black woman age 21 and i have never been with another guy out of my race nor age category! so there is this young white guy in my neighborhood (actually he is italian and sexyier than a mo' fo') that likes me (i think) he tells me all the time that i am so sexy and that i am beautiful. by the way he is only 18!! he calls me all the time and tells me that he misses me so much and that he cannot wait until he sees me again even if i just left him a couple of hours ago. the reason why i am here asking questions is because this has been going on now for approx. 2weeks and everyday he tells me that i am his but he has not tried to make a move on me! no kisses no hand holding no sexual attempts nothing what is this guy thinking someone please tell me what is going on?????????
2006-08-12 19:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by bigandluvinit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's probably just waiting for you to make the first move... maybe he's nervous about what you would do if he kissed you... like he's probably afraid of being rejected.
2006-08-12 19:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 18, you're 21 which gives you the ability to buy alcohol while he is still too young to do so. Or maybe it's the other scenario where he is really head over heals in love with you, but afraid of what his friends are going to say when they see you two together. He may think his friends will give him a hard time about hooking up with a thick chick. A third an final scenario is that he may be inexperienced in the sex department which could make him feel a bit intimidated and drive him to act as though he's schizophrenic
2006-08-12 19:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by absolute genious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all your internal alarms are going off for a reason - he may be trying to impress his friends by dating a black girl or trying to make a sexual conquest or he may just be playing some perverse game. If he truly liked you and had respect for you, he would ask you out and get to know you as a person. I would hate for you to get hurt, and if I were you, I'd go the other way every time I saw him coming. Good luck!
2006-08-12 19:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he has some sort of conviction about waiting with sex. He might very well be saving himself for his wife(1). If he's a very devout Catholic (most Italians are Catholic, after all), this would even be the expected behavior.
Bottom line: He likes you, not trying to do anything sexual is his idea of showing respect to you and your body. Consider yourself a lucky woman!
2006-08-12 19:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he sees you differently than you see yourself, he obvisouly finds you attractive, not all of us men are the best at revealing our feelings and desire, He is letting you know he is attracted however he is not sure what will happen if you are interested you have 2 issues you brought up race and age, he is 18 that makes him legal (also remember most women mature faster than guys emotionally) when I was 18 I was far from saavy, hey whats with the race thing, there is nothing wrong with mixin the flavor, us vannilla guys like chocalat to, good luck
2006-08-12 19:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by martin_werner2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's waiting for you to spill some of your sexual chocolate all over him....lol.....good luck....Im Italian...and we are always in the mood....so go for it...be the aggressor...it's sexy as hell
2006-08-12 19:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has not made a move that just means that hes shy or that he wants to give you respect.
2006-08-12 19:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes hoping your the aggressor.. test the waters.. goodluck
2006-08-12 19:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably trying to respect u and not move faster than u want him to.
2006-08-12 19:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by sweetheart2594 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whazzz up hommie do you like me or what?? don`t be shy!
2006-08-12 19:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by me too 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋