Would like you all to help me to confirm my ex bf reaction and explanation. After i found out that he got a profile in the meetsingleparents.com, i confront him and he said he's just doing it out of fun and someone told him that its a good deed to councel those ladies!! After that i started to snoop, and found emails from other girl asking for break up!! We live in different country so I don't have any idea at all what's going on on his side. When i confront him again, he told its all just a misunderstading. Is that possible?? If a guy never date the girl, would that girl be so crazy to write all those stuff??? I even saw text messages from the girl telling him not to let me know about her though she knew he's smart, its a piece of advise from her to him!! Whenever i tried to talk to him and ask for clarification, he'll just get angry and claim I don't trust him and thus I should not be with him!!
AM I BEING TOO SUSPICIOUS OR HE'S JUST MAKING A FOOL OUT OF ME???
2006-08-12 19:17:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is makeing an idiot out of you. dump him and move on. find someon in your country who can appreciat eyou for you!!! This guy obviously has some manipulating issues. i suggest you break it off.
You don't trust him, but you obviously have reason for it! Don't let him mak eyou feel bad. you are so much better than athat!
Stand up to him. be strong. he is being a prick, and he knows it. so who him who is boss. he iwll be the one who is missing out while you have a new bf who lovesyou for you and thinks you ar ethe only woman in teh world for him!
2006-08-12 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not code, this guy is a loser and enjoys playing games. Dump him as soon as you can and don't wait for something to happen in front of you because the longer you allow it to go on, the more it will hurt you. Just the fact that he is lying about talking with other girls should be enough warning. You have every right to be suspicious which is your intuition telling you to walk away from a bad situation. You deserve better. Good luck!
2006-08-12 19:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's making a fool out of you, forget him!! like you said, you are in different countries and if he's straying like this (emotional detatchment to you) who knows what else he's done! relationships shouldn't be THAT MUCH WORK, or THAT MUCH STRESS. if he's just giving you grief, dump him. for all he knows he could be hooking up with a 70 year old man on the other end of those emails------and he'd deserve it too! in your question you say that when you ask for clarification he says you don't trust him and shouldn't be with him. well you know what he's doing there?? he's being a chicken sh!t and trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to do it. let that be the last thing you do for him. what kind of b/f gets angry when you need reassurance that your relationship is stable?? one that's cheating or wants out. he doesn't have the patience to deal with you anymore. long distance relationships are hard, and if both parties aren't keen on making it work, forget it. forget him. look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are worth more than this and find someone worth your time. good luck to you.
2006-08-12 19:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by origchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 07:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by zell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you and you know it. He is a liar and you also know it. He is not worthy and you know it. What we now need to know is why are you still with him and better yetm why the hell are you dating a man that lives in another country? No men left in yours?
2006-08-12 19:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a creep and a cheater...........
cheating is cheating ....long distance or same country ...even the thought of him thinking about someone else is enough for u to dump him
anyway .. he is ur ex now... why are u even wasting ur question points on him.....let him go sister.....he doesn't deserve you
2006-08-12 19:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by blacktears2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT ASSHOLE IS CHEATING ON U
IT SUCKS
ITS HAPPENED 2 ME 4 TIMES 4ROM THE SAME GUY (SAD RIGHT)
FORGET HIM
THERES OTHER FISH IN THE SEA
2006-08-12 19:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by mersa jo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if it is in you'r ? in your mind it is there for a reason.believe the facts.
2006-08-12 19:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by glennakay2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on you go find someone else
2006-08-12 19:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bit of both.
2006-08-12 19:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋