i suddenly realise i'm so in love with this guy.
he's sweet, and caring.
was feeling down and he cheered me up.
asked me out and never went further than a peck on the cheek.
the electricity between us is getting stronger.
everytime we meet, there is this urgent longing to just hold each other.
whenever our eyes meet, nothing seems to matter even if the whole world crashed around us....
he's flying back to his own country soon...
asked me before if i was willing to go there with him forever...
my mum says she's agreeable.
i'm a little worried... brand new place, new culture, new language...
2006-08-12 19:15:47 · 7 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going to need more than feelings to make it work. Are you friends too? You've talked a lot about feelings and physical, and only a little about friendship. You need a deep friendship first if love is going to work, especially in a place where you know no one, and don't know the language to talk to other people there. You need to know that he will help you get used to the culture, that he will take time out to help you understand the language, you also need to know you have a place to come back home to if things don't turn out as you planned. Hopefully he would never try to hurt you, but you do need to have a plan made with your friends or family just incase things aren't as they appear when you get there. Don't make the decision too soon, think about all the aspects of it that you can, and ask yourself how much do you REALLY trust him. Good Luck! :)
2006-08-12 19:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known him? Guys have a tendancy to be great in the beginning, you go to a foreign country where you don't know anybody and are isolated you could find yourself in a very bad situation. Sounds like your relationship is in the infatuation stage and you can't tell ANYTHING about your future from that. Doesn't sound like you know him well enough to me, and I mean if it hasn't been a minimum of 2 years (and that means lots of time spent together in that 2 years) no way! There is way too much risk! Hec I only moved to another state with a guy and I'm screwed every which way, another country?
2006-08-13 02:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question i would ask is how long have you known him?? cuz when you first meet someone, you're gonna feel a giddy and happy and great...after a while, you're still gonna love him, but the excitement may be gone...if you see a definite, "YES i wanna spend the rest of my life with this guy" then go for it...the rest won't matter as long as you are willing 100% to make an effort for this to work and for the both of you to be happy.
2006-08-13 02:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to be careful when making this move. my girlfriend move form sacramento down to los angeles for me. We moved out together but it didn't turn out too good. she was not happy there because she is home sick. she also misses her friends. in a way she lost her identity.
you got to be willing to adjust to this change. if you don't think you can handle it, i suggest you not and just find someone special locally.
hope this helps
2006-08-13 02:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to learn about his country(as much as you can), his religion, family.will you be safe there? you need to know! its really important! when your knowlrdge will be complete than ask your heart and follow him if it will be the answer.
2006-08-13 02:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by bahadormah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not hesitate ..first he should ask u for marrige if he loves u as u said, then go with him..this is very good that ur mother is agree tooo..sooooo
good luck
2006-08-13 02:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Seema 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to decide if you wana be with him or not
2006-08-13 02:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋