I met both guys around the same time, which I later found out that they used to go to school together. They use to be friends, but not so much anymore...as far as I knew..
I was friends with both guys except that I liked one more than the other. The guy I liked never really talked about me being his girlfriend, & neither did I, but whenever we were together, we'd act like we were..even had sex. But other times, he'd act like I was just another girl. So with that I thought we were still in the "friends zone"...even though we had sex before. So I started hanging out with the other guy more just as friends..though he told me he liked me...I told him I didn't want a bf..& this is where I messed up..me & that guy drunkenly had sex while at our friend's party. I regret it..but like I said I wasn't anyone's gf. But the guy I liked supposedly found out..& called me a slut. I asked him why..he said he was just joking..since then we don't talk or see each other as much, but I still like him...
2006-08-12 19:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he'll call here and there, and I still do to, but we've definitely had enough space, it's been about 3 months since I last saw him. Does he still like me, if he's still trying to get in contact with me? If so..should I give him another chance? Does having sex with someone w/out officially "saying" that we're bf/gf constitute us being bf/gf?
2006-08-12 19:08:56 · update #1
yah I had sex with the guy I liked first...then when I knew me & the guy I liked weren't officially bf/gf..I slept with the other guy..a drunken mistake..
I don't talk to the guy I don't like, anymore. So I would think that the first guy would know that since they see each other sometimes. So after everythings been said and done..should I give him another chance? Or will he give me a second chance is what I should say.
2006-08-12 19:23:16 · update #2
he's probably feeling like his old friend stabbed him in the back and wants to get back at da 2 of u
2006-08-12 19:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweetheart2594 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can blame the guy calling you a ****
because you flirted with the first and had sex
try stopping the sex and see what happens
(but a little too late)
u will still be branded a ****
whether you like him or whoever
you gave one sex
and you hope to have sex with the other?
what chance is there?
2006-08-12 19:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't like him to well in the first place if you banged his friend drunk or not maybe you should stop being so promiscuous and then you will be able to land a guy
2006-08-12 19:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋