After I have sex, I feel so close to the man i've mad love to and all I want to do is cuddle with him. The man always just wants to turn over and go to sleep. Is there some scientific reason for this?
2006-08-12 18:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes, men receive an endorphine release when they have sex, it puts them to sleep.
2006-08-12 18:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rare Indigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess from a utilitarian perspective, a commonsense answer is this:
The purpose of sex is to ensure your genes get passed down.
For a woman, this can be achieved in the following way:
1) Get man to plant seed
2) Get man to take care of you while the seed grows
3) Get man to help take care of the baby once you pop
Hence, the desire to cuddle would indicate a way of getting the man to help with steps 2 & 3.
For a man, in order to ensure his genes get passed down, he only needs
1) Plant seed
Ideally, it should be followed by
2) Rest, then repeat step 1 with a receptive plant pot.
Hope this helps your query.
2006-08-12 19:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tuna-San 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, It's not men, it's just the man you're with.
Before you go off on me, just hear me out.
Men and women are different in a million and one ways, but so are men from all other men and women from all other women. In relationships, you might have a guy who is a control freak, and a woman who is the needy clingy type, or it could be vice versa. They would each have totally different needs, desires, turn-ons. etc. Maybe your guy's only goal in bed is to dominate, or conquer his mate, and once that's accomplished his interest is done.
I bet if you were to spin his axis off course a little, maybe give him something unexpected and dominate him a little, his reaction might be different.
Or maybe that's just the bastard that he is. >=)
2006-08-12 19:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by futga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read somewhere recently that a man's orgasm sets off a natural reaction that often leads to sleepiness. Personally...I'd love to cuddle and then make love again.
2006-08-12 19:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always thought it was the other way around....sort of.
I always went to sleep and the man watches TV. Guys I tell ya
"if you give your woman Good Lovin', she will fall asleep"
2006-08-12 18:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by 1mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to wander out to the kitchen and make a yummy sandwich after :^D
2006-08-12 19:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,,,,hmmm,,,,, if your 18 or older... i will be glad to cuddle with you .......
good luck....
2006-08-12 18:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋