2006-08-12 18:34:36 · 30 answers · asked by Samantha J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I don't condone such relationships. All that I can say is that I don't think that you should. There isn't just the problem with him being so much older than yourself, what you should understand is that someone who is 23 years old has nothing in common with a 14 year old, and if they do, they've never grown up. Consider the fact that he is older than you and can make you feel that he is always right because he has more experience in convincing people of things. No matter how mature you feel you are, at 23, you'll be able to fool a 14 year old into believing plenty. Being with him can scar you without you even knowing that you are being scarred. For your mental and emotional health in the future, I strongly suggest that you end all ties with him and consider someone our age or within the range of 2 years.
2006-08-12 18:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by elementcontroller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 23, do you see yourself going out with a 14 year old guy? You're very young and there are a few concepts that you might not understand. Desperation, manipulation, and statutory rape. Someone who is 23 and going out with a minor has problems. And this guy is giving you problems. One day when you grow in understanding, you're going to look back at this time and be upset at what this guy is putting you through. Please be a kid, learn quickly and never see that guy again.
2006-08-13 01:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by HocusPocus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. The government would say that your ex is breaking a law or two and could be looking at a lot of jail time. If you care about your ex, and judging from the fact you are thinking about getting back with him it seems like you do, then do him a favor and keep him out of prison, because when he is in jail he will be someones girlfriend, and that's no fun.
Also if you were my child your ex would be looking at the buisness end of a very, very big gun.
2006-08-13 01:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense intended because it is only your age that makes me say this, but you shouldn't try to get him back. If he's that old and willing to be with a person as young as you there is something wrong with him. Really... Find someone 14 to maybe 17.
2006-08-13 01:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 23 and you are 14, he shouldn't be ex in the first place. He is way too old for you. He needs someone his age and you need someone yours. What you two are doing would be considered illegal in the US and most western nations.
2006-08-13 01:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense because im sure he was a nice guy, but what normal 23 year old would go for somone so much younger....I suggest that move on and find a nice young man your own age....or at least closer to your own age!!!
Why does everyone just assume that because you were dating him you were having sex with him?????? Not all people are sexually active ya know!!!
2006-08-13 01:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me! You are way to young to be with a 23 year old.
2006-08-13 01:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by sobefobik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.... NO NO NO NO....
I've been there, and if he wasn't after anything more than sex, he would get someone who is at least not going to get him thrown in Jail.
Older guys are trouble, I know from experience :-(
Find a friend in school you know well... someone you can trust, and is easy to talk to. Best friends make the best bf's
2006-08-13 01:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your relationship with him could land him in jail--EVEN if you consent. If you care about him, which I have to say is pretty creepy in the first place, leave this relationship and date someone closer to your age. Sorry, its just not right on his part.
2006-08-13 01:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you was my child and you was talking about a 23 year old man you would have a problem and he would be in jail.
2006-08-13 01:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by lorajac123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋