ive been talking and seeing a girl for a while and shes awsome attractive really like her... but like i dont know if i should keep with her... she likes me and everything but the thing about her is like there r holes in her personality... like she cant get along and be friends with a person unless they r perfect... she wont be friends with people and say well they r this or they r that and idk that bothers me cuz im a big peoples person and everyone has defects but i overlook it and like to meet and be friends with everyone... she has a couple little things but idk am i looking too high of standards? also shes a lil too good for me too... idk if my standards r just too high or what...
2006-08-12 18:31:30 · 6 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how you feel.
Let her know that she's not perfect. Tell her you are going to tell her flaws that way she knows she is not perfect either.
And if she continues to judge everyone like that, she'll end up alone..
It doesn't matter if you are beautiful on the outside if you are ugly on the inside.
beauty is only skin deep.. and eventually, it fades..
but a true, genuine person will have such a great personality, that they will seem like the most amazingly beautiful person you've ever laid eyes on
2006-08-12 18:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! sounds that there's some personality clash here. U sound like u r opposites n they used to say "opposites attract" - but it's now changed to "opposites attack" . go slow n mayb if u have to walk away eventually, u both won't get too hurt
2006-08-13 01:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very wise for realizing the differances now instead of later, some differances are good for relationships some are poisionous, and I personally feel that this person would adventually bring you down, and break your spirit.
2006-08-13 01:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship involves compromises and sacrifices. You need to think about what she thinks of your friends, and if she does not like them you need to figure out how to have a relationship with this girl and keep your friends. If your relationship keeps you from being with your friends you need to decide who is more important to you.
2006-08-13 01:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know your answer. Noone has to be perfect but if you find your time with her is not enriching, then I would cut out the time you spend with her. Probably to nothing.
2006-08-13 01:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship i think its important to be able to spend time together around other people you enjoy, otherwise you end up spending time separately and with other people, and we know where that can lead. There are sacrifices in a relationship and she should suck it up and be happy that shes with you, wherever you are, around whoever your around.
2006-08-13 01:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋