my b/f and i havent had sex in two weeks because he cant seem to keep it hard enough when we did have sex. i have tried everything to keep it hard and nothing has worked. could we have lost interest in each other. please help. if u have been in this how did u do it or cope?
2006-08-12 18:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes 23 and im 20
2006-08-13 05:22:04 · update #1
You didn't say how old you (or he) are. Possibly Cialis could help. I suggest drmark.com for all of his dick defect questions. If it's good enough for Bubba the Love Sponge, its good enuff for him.
2006-08-12 18:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what your ages are, but a guy usually can get hard and stay hard for a nice young lady. Maybe he is masturbating a lot or is seeing someone else. However, there can also be other reasons for not being able to please you. He could be stressed out about something or may have some medial issue. You need to talk to him to see what he thinks is going on. You will be able to figure this out. Good Luck
2006-08-12 18:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband of three years went thru this a little while ago. I thought it was me, but he truly was having a hard time at work and when those issues were resolved everything started working better :) Also this could be a medical issue, suggest he see a doctor.
2006-08-12 18:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by cockermom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he stressed out more than usual? Has he been drinking or doing drugs before you have sex? There is something going on with him that is making it so he can't concentrate on the task at hand. Talk to him, and find out.
2006-08-12 18:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried drinking alcohol, not too much ? Be more intimate, you tried bj making you both have the desire to have sex it will be hard. Don't quit, hang there.
2006-08-12 18:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is a medical problem There is medicine for that. Or he could be feeling guilty about something.
2006-08-12 18:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl you cant... you got to find a man who can keep it hard and throbbing inside untill your satisfied... if you cant find one and your sexy holla at me...... i'll take you there
2006-08-12 19:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay!!!! works wonders....
2006-08-12 18:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a c**k ring!
2006-08-12 18:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋