as one of the people answered my question that i really love him or not . or he is not missing me that is y i miss him .............. THIS IS WRONG I REALLY LOVE HIM OTHERWISE I WUD HAVE NEVER ASKED U THIS QUESTION . U SAID NOT TO MESG HIM ....... WELL I MESG OR NOT MESG HIM HE DOESNT REPLY AND U SAY HE WIL COME BACK ......... I WISH TO GOD HE COMES BACK.. PLEASE SUGGEST IF I DONT CALL HIM OR MESG HIM WILL HE COME BACK I REALLY MISS HIM... AND HE DONT MSS ME AT ALL I DONT KNW HOW CAN HE FORGET EVERYTHING
2006-08-12 18:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
casually ask one of his friends if he likes u. if he doesn't, wait for him , but back off so he doesn't think your desperate. say if the guy u like had a friend called mike u cud go up to mike and if mike really likes baseball casually talk to him about baseball and get around to asking him if the guy u like (lets call him fred) likes u. if fred likes u then mike will probley tell u but if hes so ova u then dont wait around for 2 long.
2006-08-12 18:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samantha, you need to wake up! Can you please tell me why you're fighting so hard to keep someone who does not want to keep you? The problem here is that you're looking at only YOUR feelings. Although I do believe that a female's fellings towards her man is the most important factor in a successful relationship, its not the only factor. This guy is done with you, and the quicker you stop fighting that, and embrace it, the quicker you can heal and open yourself up to meeting someone who deserves and wants you. It's quite normal to miss him, it's OK to even cry. After all you're hurt .So here's what I want you to do. Take a whole day (preferably when you don't have school) and use that day to feel as bad as you want about this whole thing. Cry, wallow in self pity and don't forget to think about the wonderful life you could have had, had you married this prince charming. When you're done, go sign up for an dance class where you can meet some cute guys who know how to move. Try the debate club if you have one in your schoo, it will help with your confidence. One last thing: You must NEVER go back to this guy regardless of what he says and don't ever be alone with him as he may think he has a chance to win you back. If you run into him face to face, be polite and say hey, but that's all he gets. You're gonna be fine, although it may not seem that way right now. Go have a great life and thanks for posting your question!
2006-08-12 18:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I am going to say, We as women do not need to be chasing after men. Second off if you are a young woman you need to be focused on school and your future, a Man cannot make you God and an education can the right man will come along in the right time. If he seems uninterested go on with yourself. My mom always tells me you have to love and treat yourself like you want to be treated before someone else will.
2006-08-12 18:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by ibcookn04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus ignore him but at the same time make it appear that you are getting over it and may leave him. If he really loves you he will come back. Because in love, possissiveness is the one strong feeling that binds people. If he doesn't heed for this too, forget him, he is not fit for you. It will hurt for sometime but time will heal
2006-08-12 18:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by PBVenkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it's time to grow up here go find someone. He doesn't want you, don't you get it. Wake the fu*k up, open your eyes ....ya you think you love him, but life goes on and it's time for you to get in the big picture and go get a real man one that will love you back.
2006-08-12 18:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Eonix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like they have always told me, Set him free it was yours he will come back if not it was never meant to be. I believe that becaus i set mine free and he came back. We've been together for 11 yrs. and we have four beautiful children. Maybe it's just time for a little brake, and you just some time to relax and think things through.
2006-08-12 18:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what your first question was so i really don't know what happened. but, i'm sure he does miss you, he is just trying to not let it show. and yeah, if you wanna message him then go for it! it'll make things alot better if you tell him how you feel. and don't worry honey, i bet you anything he comes running back.
2006-08-12 18:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by woahitsoliviaX3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be the only sexist males in the world?
2006-08-12 18:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you, let him go and get on with your life. If he doesn't love you, you are better off with out him.
2006-08-12 18:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well samantha, if you really love then why dont you go for it. People do anything for love then why not you.
2006-08-12 19:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋