I'm a Sophomore in High School and there's this girl that I like, how do i get her to like me?

Answer 1

You leave too many questions unanswered for me to give you objective advice.
Have you already met her and you're not sure how she feels about you?
Or, is this someone you've been admiring from afar and you'd like to get to know her and for her then to like you.

Are you too shy to approach her and talk to her?

By the way, you don't "get her" to like you.
If she likes you it will be her own choice based on the qualities she see's in you and whether or not there is an attraction or a "spark" when once your eyes meet. A woman needs a reason to like a man, something she can remember and will remind her of something about you that she likes, something that she will take with her into her dreams.

So then, you first need to create the opportunity for her to meet you, talk with you and determine if the conversation you share is stimulating enough for her to want to continue your budding relationship.
Since you both attend the same school, try and have an "accidental" meeting in the cafeteria ("excuse me, is this seat taken?) or perhaps outside while she is sitting under a shade tree or reading her books somewhere ("Hi, studying for an exam?").
Whatever it takes, you have to have that first meeting.
If she likes you, you will know it by the sparkle in her eyes and the hint of a smile on her lips.
Always try to extend a compliment to her..."wow, you have a great smile." or, "I really like your perfume", or "that's a great looking blouse (shirt, sweater, whatever)."
Women want to know that the trouble they went through to get ready to go out (to school, to work, wherever) is noticed by others and that she made the right decision regarding what to wear, etc.

If she shows no signs of liking or showing an interest in you, then you need to do a self-evaluation. Are you dressed nicely? What about your personal hygiene? Any issues? Do you have bad breath? Can you speak in coherent sentences? Do you sound somewhat intelligent or is the answer "no" to one or all of these questions and she is perhaps simply turned off?

A woman expects a man to "make the first move"..she is not going to make it a point to go out of her way to meet you first. Even if she has seen you before and perhaps likes what she sees, she would prefer that you initiate the first move and then, if she likes you and you like her, the rest is easy and nature will take it's course.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Remember that you are important, and don't let being shy keep you down! Cnfidence is key. It doesn't matter if you had all the looks in the world, if you don't have confidence, then girls want be attracted to you.





This is a major dilema in many peoplewho are searching for that right one, or in some cases the wrong one. But the key thing to remember, is that no woman is better than any other. When asking a girl, pretend that she doesn't get you nervous, as to psyche yourself. In other words, start by- always be the one to start, if she ever starts, then friend phase has been established, and any chances of dating her has been destroyed- relating your questions to things that are relevant to the situation your in. For instance,

1. Crack a joke, or make a point about something she is doing, even if it is sappy. As long as she responds back in a smile or laugh, then advance on. But remember, never make a joke unrelevant, and never question. Girls hate men who question them. Just be smooth, and relate. Relation is important; it shows whther you are going to be compatable with her, if that makes sense to you.

2. Next make a general statement about things she usually does, relating of course to what she is doing at that moment.

3. Next give her a piece of personal infomation, relating to what you and her are doing at the moment.

4. Then if she continues to talk, then say that you would like to get to know her more, but don't be eager. Be swave, and relate to situations that and not questionares. Never ask a girl a general statement, only ask related questions with a situation in which you are in.

Important: NEVER let her know that you want her; never let her know that you want her; never be nervous, and if you are, play it cool; never be clingy; never be obssesive; always be confident; and take the lead. Lead her to date you, but never imply that it's a date. As long as you play hard to get, but at the same time talk to her, then she wont be freaked out.

IF SHE says no, then you know she's not the one

but remember that their isn't the "One", so don't get obssesive, be respectful of yourself

Answer 3

Start talking to her, express an interest in getting to know her. Ask questions, what class she likes the most, which class she doesn't like and why? If shes wearing something new or different comment on it (in a good way) If she likes you, she'll talk to you. If she walks away and gives you dirty looks, then theres a problem.

Answer 4

Give her parents 1 mil.

Answer 5

just be a boy what can i say and if u dont know what that means it means be yourself later

Answer 6

show her u like her dont be stalker despret but just show her how u feel

Answer 7

offer her sex ;]]