im in love with the girl who is just 17 years old. she loves me too..
but sometimes im thinking about ours age difference, is it ok ....pls help me to decide???
2006-08-12 17:22:54 · 14 answers · asked by bishal c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
f you really love her, just wait 2-3 years more and see if she has still the same felling for you. just go ahead...
because she is not yet matured, you have her time...
2006-08-12 17:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by alexmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in love with her? Thats an awful big age difference..? First of all you should be thinking about the fact that you MAY get in trouble. In some states the legal age of sexual consent is 16 yrs old.....but you can look it up online, to find out about you're states laws. When she's 18 yrs old the it may not be such a big deal, but you also need to think about her....is she mature enough to date a 26 yr old? I mean I'm only 24...but you're 26..you're getting up there in age. She's young and is almost about to JUST enter adulthood...will she want the same things you may want with her later on?
I dated my current boyfriend from the time I was 16 until I was 18, when he asked me to marry him I said yes of course...what does every young woman dream about.....?But I wasn't being realistic, I figured out 4 months later that I just plain wasn't ready for such a commitment.He was my first everything....I hadn't experienced enough in life to be tied down yet...he was more important to me,our relationship was important to me...but I don't believe in divorce, I also don't want to be in a miserable marriage though...I was way too young at the time. Yes we broke up but have been back together for a year now.She's young and has plenty of her life left...be with her, but don't rush things..if it's meant to be then it will all come together in time.
2006-08-12 17:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, it seems like a huge age difference. She is just 17. Give her time to grow up and discover herself, before jumping into a relationship. If you still feel the same way after she is 22, go for it. When she is 22, you will be 31. You will both be more stable and secure. Just wait a while.
2006-08-12 17:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by seatonrsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number of years difference is not a big problem, however, 17 is not as LIFE experienced as (26). If you get along, have fun, respect one another, then follow your heart.
2006-08-12 17:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 26 years old and you have to ask complete strangers to help you decide something that is something only YOU can decide?
Do you still live with your mother??
good luck with that.
2006-08-12 17:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll likely have extra effective success looking some thing once you're accessible and ought to seek and meet human beings in human being. i must be prepared to take the time in spite of the undeniable fact that -- getting conscious of issues contained in the realm for a month or 2 first ought to help. i ought to also be prepared to shop expenditures down (roommates, etc.), and to even do such issues as waitressing, inn house responsibilities, etc once you would possibly want to. i don't think of you receives very far making use of on line from the mainland once you're genuinely competing with human beings residing regionally who're determined and ought to interview in human being and commence in the present day. they are also going to be extra conscious of the area than you. i ought to also do no longer ignore that Maui is basically tourism depending, and tourism in Hawaii is often down already. i don't think of many places are extraordinarily wanting to employ in the present day, and at the same time as they do, there are certainly locals extra determined for jobs than you, and they'll technically have extra to provide than you for the positions which are available in. in case you do opt for it, i ought to certainly have a backup plan for returning to the mainland might want to it grow to be mandatory. you do not opt to expire of money and finally end up unemployed and homeless in an area the position you comprehend very just about no human being and ought to't even conveniently get out for another position. that is by no ability unusual for human beings to pass out to places like Maui with massive dramatic plans and interior a twelve months they are hightailing it out of there -- in the adventure that they could. one component you ought to seem into is making use of for a graduate degree on between the islands, or pursuing one each and every so often perhaps heading accessible in yet another twelve months or 2 at the same time as the economy is somewhat extra effective and also you your self have extra to provide.
2016-11-30 00:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a year...after that, it's just a number. It's no different than Joel and Hilary.
2006-08-12 17:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok because she is still a minor wait untill she is 18 yr old or go find some one else
2006-08-12 17:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's ok when she turns 18. until then keep it in your pants and don't try to be with her. wait until she is legal. you want to avoid any problems that could happen, while she's a minor.
2006-08-12 17:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by glamr216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude can u keep it in ur pants for 1 yr ?
2006-08-12 17:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋