You know the magazines I'm talking about - AND the websites. Do you think it's ok for your significant other to be looking at them? Do you think they're offensive and degrading or just normal guy behaviour? Is One girl good enough for a guy, or will men always want more?
2006-08-12 17:15:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men always want more, stand up to him and say if he want's to look at photo's of naked women stare at you..........
2006-08-12 17:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by faith m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think these three questions are worth answering separately.
1. SOME pornography is degrading and exploitative, but as a woman there is some pornography that I even find appealing. I don't think the whole concept is offensive. Nothing wrong with a little fantasy.
2. If a man loves you and respects you, then you will be enough for him in terms of romantic love and sex. But again: Nothing wrong with a little fantasy, if it doesn't interfere with your relationship. Just like there's nothing wrong with daydreaming about marrying Johnny Depp. (:
3. So yes, I think it's okay for your S.O. to look at porn now and then.
2006-08-12 17:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by llemma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely normal and it is all right to use magazines / web sites and there won't be any problem as long as it is not illegal in your country.
I think men always want more. But the important thing is still they don't take all there fantasies into action and also are willing to sacrifice those desires for the sake of a single lady. (Well... most of them!)
2006-08-12 17:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by amiladm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for a guy to look at porn. im ok with it. I have even looked at it with him. I know that im the one he will be touching on and not anyone else. if it helps get him in the mood im all for it. It shouldnt be offencive nor degrading, as long as it is done in good taste.
2006-08-12 17:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by tpippi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-12 17:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like them and I'd be ashamed if that were my daughter that men were looking like that at, but hey when there's some nights I'm not up to it and he wants it --it takes the pressure of feeling like I have to,lol. I know he loves me and only me..I guess it's a personal comfort thing, if you're uncomfortable with it then you need to talk to him about it...
2006-08-12 17:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very normal for people to look at pornographic material; males, especially, tend to find that masturbating to pornographic material is their primary sexual release during their formative adolescent years. As they get older, and start forming relationships, they often find it's still easy to use pornographic material as a shortcut for sexual release, even though they're involved in a relationship. Very seldom is it a case of them not being interested in you; it tends to be handy (pardon the pun) for times when you're not around, and they're still full of hormones, or when the timing doesn't work out (you're studying for a really big test, it's in the middle of your period, etc), or if you're simply not in the mood.
Look at it from the other way around--would you really want to sign yourself up for being the only means of sexual release for a young man, absolutely filled to the brim with testosterone? There's going to be times when you're not up for it, aren't in the mood, or just plain don't have the time. Would you still want him pressuring you to have sex even though it's the middle of your period, and you're cramping up something fierce and don't even want to think about sex at the moment? Or would you rather he go over to the corner and masturbate to a magazine or website while you take some midol and lie down until the cramps ease up?
I think as long as he cares about you, and is open and honest about his use of pornographic material, you have nothing to worry about. A real, live girl is always better than a magazine or website, so he's always going to come to you when you're available. But this way, when you're not in the mood, or can't take care of him, he knows it's ok to take matters into his own hands, and won't put unfair pressure on you.
As far as them being degrading...that's a tough issue. Some images are, no doubt about it; others just depict consensual sex between adults, and I don't think there's anything wrong with images like that. It's normal behaviour that most people engage in, there's nothing offensive or degrading about people having sex. I think any concerns you might have in this area would have to center around the type of material he looks at, and you'll need to have an honest talk with him about what type of material he looks at, and what excites him in order to decide if it's just normal masturbatory fantasies or not.
As far as the idea of one person being good enough for another, whether male or female, I think that's pretty silly. There's always going to be times where one or the other isn't able to take care of the other's needs. Men watch pornography and masturbate, women have toys they can play with, it's normal to have alternate means of release. It keeps us from putting too many demands on our partners, which can end up building up resentment over the long term.
So relax, don't worry too much about it--have an open, honest talk with him, let him know you prefer he doesn't hide what he's looking at, that you'd be more nervous or concerned if he tries to hide it than if he's open about the type of material he uses to fantasize and masturbate, and feel free to let him know that you'd prefer he comes to you first, if it's convenient, but that you understand that if things don't work out that way, that you understand if he opts to take care of himself, rather than pressuring you.
Sound like a fair way to handle it? :)
Good luck!
2006-08-12 17:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by mpetach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes hy daveey here along with boyfriens steeviee,l gay partners etc, no e love gawking at playgirl fr the latest hot hunks, etc, even thou we are in the modelling biz, and no its not offensive, or degrading hel we are paying for itt sex sells!! and one guy fora broad?? nah he will always bed hop if hes straight if your gay bed hopping too especially in the modelling biz, etc, its just normal guy behaviorr etc, tobed hopp, and the web sites owe always hons!! this junke isent goiing awayy get used too itt!! wee never really never know when we are rady too settle downe neverrr!!
2006-08-12 17:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dirty magazines are a no-no for boyfriends! Talk to him about it! He enjoys himself other than you and don't let that happen! Take control as soon as possible!
2006-08-12 17:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its degrading u got to admit that they dont treat women right in those they treat them like their sex slaves tell him either u or those sites and magazines
2006-08-12 17:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on condition that its in a joking way, in the course of foreplay or in privateness.... yet be particular he's happy with it. you'll not favor him calling you a grimy Whore in mixed company, ought to you? it ought to now and again get a touch previous or embarassing. desire this helps!
2016-11-30 00:28:06 · answer #11 · answered by schonberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋