ok theres this guy i really really like. hes very sweet and nice to me. idk if he likes me or not but he acts like he does. (he wants me to pick him up so we can go to a pool, he wants me to meet him at a fair we r having in a couple days to. + he flirts alot with me at school.) but i dont know if its all a trick with him and his buddies cause some of his buds r like that. do u think he likes me? or not? please help! (p.s. im 12 almost 13)
2006-08-12 17:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Kalynah K 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
hey guys dont get mad at me i didnt meant to post it twice. sorry :(
2006-08-12 17:12:43 · update #1
He likes you! 100% he likes you!
2006-08-12 17:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you but one thing you need to know is that girls mature faster than boys and at your age, girls often want boyfriends but most boys are NOT ready for girlfriends. Don't worry though, it won't take him long (maybe another year or two, or maybe not even that long) to get interested.
In the meantime be his FRIEND. That's a lot more valuable at your age anyway. It is a good idea for you both to learn how to have friends of the opposite sex. It makes it easier for you to talk to boys (and him girls), helps you get over a lot of the fears on that subject, and will give you a better idea of how guys think.
Guys think very differently than girls and the more you get to understand those differences, the more successful your relationships will ultimately be.
So be his friend right now. WHEN and if he is ready for it to move into something else HE WILL let you know. Keep in mind that just as you wouldn't want a guy to push you into a relationship before you're ready, guys don't want to be pushed either. If it is meant to be, it will happen. In the meantime as his friend, you are still an insider and important person in his life.
Good luck and BE GOOD!
2006-08-13 00:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are suspicious I would trust your gut feeling on this. Bring a friend or someone else you trust and don't go alone. 12/13 is too young to go out and meet someone by yourself anyway. And why do you have to pick him up? Why can't he pick you up? Have him meet your parents so they know who you are hanging out with. This will make him feel (hopefully) more accountable as well. Just because someone, even a boy you like, asks you to do something doesn't mean you have to do it if you are at ALL uncomfortable. Trust your first instinct, it will never steer you wrong!
2006-08-13 00:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes guys do that like u said to make u mad. but u should kind of play hard to get more. dont flirt back as much just kind of let HIM chase you and when he gets to the point where he tell u then u got him
2006-08-13 00:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kaylee A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I've had some problems kinda like that myself. I guess if your'e desperate then when you're alone then ask hi m if he likes you or if he is just play'in. Or, what I personally like to do is ignore him. trust me I'm 13 and I know exactly what you're goin through
2006-08-13 00:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE WORRIED ABOUT B OYS & SEX!
Go home & play with a doll or something!It makes me sick ,all you babies running around like grown ups,worrying about your sex life!
YOU ARE NOT GROWN! & when you do grow up,I hope you are alot more mature than most of these grown ups are now!
2006-08-13 00:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be bold and ask him out...if you've already gone to fairs and stuff he likes spending time with you, so why not? i like that you answered a question "does size matter?" if you're 12, you clearly haven't had sexual relations and probably havent ever seen a penis before...so of course size doesn't matter to you. that's cute though, good luck with your boy. trust me, guys love it when girls ask them out, i swear, he'll love you for it
2006-08-13 01:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by la wendada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a mutual friend to ask him whats going on.
2006-08-13 00:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by The one and only 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are u doing online at midnight if you're 12? go watch some barney and go to sleep!
2006-08-13 00:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by whutup387 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you want to make sure about his intentions?
ask him...
that's the best way.
2006-08-13 00:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋