meaning if she cant equal the time she spents with her boyfriend n bestfriend should she be allowed 2 have a boyfriend
2006-08-12 16:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by manny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you that jealous bestfriend? Should she be 'allowed' to have a boyfriend? It's her life. She's allowed to do whatever she chooses to do when it comes to things like this...
2006-08-12 16:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On my list of priorities, the boyfriend comes first. He should and can be a best friend. I'd prefer spending time with him over all others. Everyone should have the opportunity to have friends if they so choose, including the boyfriend. If this is what is desired by both, then make an agreement to the time given to each ones friends and keep to it. Reserve the remaining time for each other.
2006-08-12 23:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best friend should realize that you have someone special in your life and should be happy for you and learn to adjust to that. The boyfriend needs to realize that every girl needs a best friend and needs to be able to spend time with her too...I guess through that babbling.. I think it can be done, if both "best" parties are willing to share you with other.
Just remember boyfriends come and go ( unless he's the one,lol) but your best friend will always be there!
2006-08-12 23:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, she chooses to spend time with whomever she wants and it is her choice to spend as much time as she wants. I really dont think the amount of time spent is that important either. I think its the quality of the time you spend. I know people who spend lots of time with their boyfriends and still make a little quality time with their friends and keep a good friendship. Yes balance can make things better but it is up to her to choose how and who she spends her time with. That doesnt mean she doesnt deserve a boyfriend and it doesnt mean she doesnt deserve a best friend either. It just means she has her way of dealing with both and you may not agree with it. You cant change what people do, its up to her to do that herself and make her decisions.
You can talk to her about how you feel but theres not much you can do to change her or the choices shes making.
2006-08-13 00:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by niteangel2283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allowed to have one? I don't think that's anyone's choice but hers.
Most of the people I know spend more time with their boyfriends than friends. The relationship is more intimate. I don't see anything wrong with it.
2006-08-12 23:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the male. if the male isnt the type to spend 24/7 with her then she could spend lots of time with her gf. but if the boy is the attached type, then she's gonna need to balance it out! always set up a schedule on when ur gonna meet at the beginning of the relationship! lol!
2006-08-12 23:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she should.
2006-08-12 23:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2006-08-12 23:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-12 23:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Pusher Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋