my boyfriend is doing drugs and im reallly scared about what will happen to him because my best friends sister died from drugs ive been trying to make him stop but he wont listen
right now i feel like i should give up hope and try to move on but i kno that will be reallly hard to do i still have this feeling that he'll stop but i dont kno how to make him stop
2006-08-12 16:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by happylittlewhalewithpinkpants 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey he aint goona stop till he is ready. I know you love him and you want to help and hold on but honestly drugs comes first in his life and i worry he is going to pull you down with him. It happened to me. I feel for you but if i were you i would tell him when he gets help you can try again, He cant stop for you he has to stop for himself.
2006-08-12 16:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by naomihank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard to leave him and move on, but you cannot make him give up drugs, he must do it himself. Actually he will need a lot of help, but he has to want to stop or he never will.
How many years do you want to waste with a drug addict?
2006-08-12 16:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for you to be able to help him quit he has got to want to quit it is no good you hurting yourself emotionally if he is not going to do something about it himself.Sometimes it takes a major shock to wake people up who are doing drugs.If you try to sit down and calmly try to talk to him about his problem he might listen if he really loves you he will see what it is doing to you and will at least want to give quiting a go.If not then the only option left for you is to leave and tell him until he comes to his senses you don't want anything to do with him.It will be one of the hardest things you could ever imagine to do but sometimes a shock like that can turn someone around.i know I had to do it to a G/F and it was the worst thing I ever had to do but now she is fully employed as a legal secretary and has never looked back to drugs.Unfortunately I never got back with her as she moved to far away for me to see her but we are still the best of friends and she even thanks me for making her see what she was doing with her life.
2006-08-12 16:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell his parents he's doing drugs or something, because you alone cant stop him or ask his friends to help you and if he doesnt still listen it`s his life and definitely sooner or later what he lost because of drugs
2006-08-12 16:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and say "It's either me or the drugs." If it is the drugs, tell his parents or someone who will help.
2006-08-12 16:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have them (feelings) for you, oh but for the drugs he does. Drop the Zero
2006-08-12 16:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can offer to help over and over, but until he's ready to help himself, it's almost a total lost cause. I've been there where you are. But he's going to have to want to help himself, you can still be his friend and offer support.
2006-08-12 16:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by dns618 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust you enough to listen to you for the sake of his well being, you need to leave him. Evidently, drugs are more important to him.
2006-08-12 16:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he loves you then he'll stop because if he keeps on doing them then he'll probobly die so tell him that your gonna break up if he doesnt stop..drugs are lame
2006-08-12 16:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by GOBBLE GOBBLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey take it from someone who knows LEAVE him or he will drad u down with him
2006-08-12 16:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋