I was wondering what your opinions are. My ex and I have a child together. We broke up and he moved to a different city only to find someone else and knock her up. Her baby is due in Oct. Then they split up and he moves back here with another GF and just recently got her pregnant. Me and his recent ex talk lots and we are both of the opinion that he should get fixed. He doesnt pay child support to either one (well he cant pay her yet). He claimed bankruptcy so we cant go after him for anything. Who here thinks he should get fixed??
2006-08-12 16:02:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Dont worry, i am just curious on who thinks what. I am married with another on the way. So i got my life together and so is his other ex. Thanks to all who reply.
2006-08-12 16:10:37 · update #1
he should be fix i feel that if he cant care of ur baby and made another 1 cant take care of either 1 get fix but u should bring him to court they can get him to pay yall child support even if he is fixin to claim bankrupt he still has to help u take care of the baby if he got a job r he can get one he has to pay for his kids r give up rites thats wat i would do bc im fixin to be kinda the the position so i fixin my ex to choice takin of our daughter r he can get up rites and go take of his next kid bc im gettin married soon and he wants to take care of her full time and jus when her dad dont
2006-08-12 16:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_cowgirl8321 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should get a new lawyer. Child support (in most states) has nothing to do with bankruptcy!
If he is on the birthcertificate he is responsible for the child!
All three of you should get together and go to the same lawyer at the same time, atleast the 2 of you that get along. Should make him look like real scum to the judge.
Make the sorry piece of crap pay.
CALL A LAWYER!!!!!
2006-08-12 16:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by suequek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are under the false impression that the bankruptcy means you cannot go after him for support. Not true. Bankruptcy does not get rid of support obligations, so you should see a local attorney about getting support as soon as possible.
2006-08-13 03:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should speak to an attorney, bankruptcy or not he is still responsible and there should be something that can be done. About getting him fixed, why bother he is just digging himself a bigger hole, let him deal with his own problems. It will eventually catch up with him.
2006-08-12 16:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can think of a few not nice ways to fix him, since he seems to be spreading his irresponsible DNA around town, but they would probably land you in some trouble. I think he should get a vasectomy quick!!!!
2006-08-12 16:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I'd find a few gang members... Could permanently neuter him for ya... If you get what I'm saying, don't worry I seen this in a movie once.
2006-08-12 16:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he should get fixed. i know some guys like this. too bad you can't force him to do it. some guys main goal in life is to have as many kids as possible with as many different women.
2006-08-12 16:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can still file for child support- they willtake his taxes for the amout owed- I don't think child support is bankruptable!
But, yes- he should get fixed!
2006-08-12 16:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by mominshoe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any man that can't keep his d i c k in his pants should get fixed if they can make up their mind of who they want to be with! My oldest's dad did that!!!
2006-08-12 16:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by M~Lyna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! c'mon ladies. It takes two to make a baby. All three of you were obviously willing, a three pack of condoms costs $1.39.
2006-08-12 16:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rick N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋