otay..... i finally talked to this guy i've been wanting to get with for like 7 months now.....
before i talked to him today on the phone..... i was at me friends house and he was there.... he was talkin about gettin with me and that he missed me and stuff like that.....
like the whole day was tryin to have sex with me.... i wanted to and we have before.... so i had sex with him again..... we've known each other for ever so it was cool you know
so anyways when i talked to him today i asked him about me and him... he said that he wants to be alone he doesnt want to be tied down.... because he acts crazy when he gets into relationships.... and he said that he has to go back to jail and get allot of stuff together before he does that...
my question is should i just leave him alone and just continue to be friend or should i just be there and try again when everything is right..... or should i wait for him to get everything right in his life and let him just get with me instead
2006-08-12 16:01:22 · 11 answers · asked by lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he wants to clean up first but it hurts because it seemed like he wanted me with him you know and he just gave me signs even before we had sex
2006-08-12 16:12:51 · update #1
DO NOT WAIT AROUND FOR ANY MAN!!!! Your time is much too precious. Move on. If he wants to be with you, then he wouldn't care about "getting his stuff together first". If you're important to him, then he will make changes in his lifestyle to accommodate you. It seems like he's only interested in you b/c of the sex...now that you're talking about "you & him", all of a sudden he's got all these excuses why you can't be together...Leave him alone. You deserve better than that.
2006-08-12 16:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by mdel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute, you had sex with him for the SECOND time and yet there is no sort of committment to any relationship (honey, "friends" don't just hop in the sack) - he has to go back to jail - acts "crazy" when he gets into relationships? Seriously, what is wrong with this picture? Why exactly do you want him "with you", whatever that really means? I must be missing something here.
2006-08-12 16:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Otay Buckwheat, you need to stay away from that. Maybe be just friends. Sounds a bit risky to me with jail involved, and him not wanting a commitment.
2006-08-12 16:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please leave him alone. If not for him, do it for yourself. Telling you that he acts crazy, should have been enough. Then with him in and out of jail, girl, what kind of relationship is that?
If you want to wait for him to straighten up, that cool. That shows you have patience. But you could wait forever. You never know. Finding happiness in today's world is a game of chance. My heart goes out to you.
2006-08-12 16:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by N_Quizitive_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of chump is this that has to go back to jail? You definitely need to start raising your standards a bit.
2006-08-12 16:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to go back to jail? Make like forest gump and run like hell in the opposite direction.
2006-08-12 16:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl u best just leave him what in the world is he doing in jail he is no good 4 u
2006-08-12 16:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by shorty Peraza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl it's obvious he was using you for sex. You need to really look for another guy.
2006-08-12 16:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go sista!! He is not worth it and will only caouse you heartache and problems.
2006-08-12 16:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋