We've broken up for a year now.
The guy broke up with me for reasons that he needed to fix some self-issues and he was on isolation for a year. He finally come back looking in good emotional shape and had been very sincere in wanting me back. I was like running away from him, changing my number for five times already until I thought maybe I should give it a second chance because he was very persistent and I could feel that he was true.
Finally it came to me that maybe we need some more time and that's what i told him, then HE ASKED if we could talk, because he said if i want closure we should talk personally, so i said YES. On the day we were about to meet, i changed my mind and decided that I will give the relationship another chance rather than closing it. we were about to meet at 6pm. Then at exactly 6 he texted me that he will be late and after 30minutes, he texted me "can we talk tomorrow? i don't feel like talking"...
i did not reply to his messages anymore since then..
2006-08-12 15:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after that, he was calling me almost everyday from morning till evening but i wasnt taking his calls. then i don't know what happened, one day he was calling me, then after a while he just texted, "im changing my number by the way"...
2006-08-12 15:54:10 · update #1
Don't waste your time on that chump. I know it hurts, but move on. Life's too short to waste your time on depressing sh*t and reminiscing about the past. What about your exciting future? Get to work on that!
2006-08-12 15:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let him change his number. He's just trying to get a rise (reaction) out of you. I would let him make the next move. It doesn't sound like his heart is into getting back together. Go on with your life.
2006-08-12 16:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you sponsored off a year in the past, and had some reservations approximately entering into the courting returned, i could say you do no longer ought to communicate to him. you have closure, he does not. You had already made a decision, he wanted to alter your strategies. undergo in strategies, he replaced into the guy who wanted to communicate. With him no longer showing up, he nonetheless can not be depended up. i could shop the doorways closed. I went with the aid of something comparable, my ex had subjects, that he replaced into going to artwork with the aid of and he wanted me to maintain the door open for his back. I hesitantly did. enormous mistake. It became out he nonetheless had a similar subjects and problems and had did each and every thing to concealed them from me, it did no longer end nicely, I had to throw him out contained in the line. He nonetheless compelled me for months to permit him back, I mentioned No. He finally, stopped calling me after he got here upon somebody else. i'm no longer asserting this guy is mendacity or masking up something because of the fact i don't be conscious of him. even nevertheless, i will provide you this as a courting measuring gadget. IF the guy you're interest IN does not evaluate YOUR emotions, decide directly to administration ALL YOU judgements with none provide OR TAKE, needs to close YOU OFF out of your pals and kin, AND IT fee YOU greater (IT TAKES faraway from WHO you're, YOUR HOPES AND objectives, economic, AND EMOTIONAL protection) THAN they provide--RUN FROM THAT subject. A courting isn't one sided and damaging, that's useful.
2016-09-29 05:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what it sounds like he didn't want the closer talk he wanted to give you guys another chance just as you wanted. I don't understand why you ignored him after that if you wanted another chance w/ him. Maybe both of you have some problems.
2006-08-12 15:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If someone ends a relationship, there is a reason. Why do so many people continue to hang on and try and figure out why? It's over, let it go already.
2006-08-12 16:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously didn't meet up with you because he knew you would probably end things with him. He freaked because he was losing you. sounds like after you ignored him, he decided to use closure for him and change his number. time to move on.
2006-08-12 16:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is gone. Don't think about that and move on. That would be best for both of you. Lots of issues there and you don't need to deal with all that. Find someone else and you will be happier.
2006-08-12 15:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to have the confertation. Dump him
2006-08-12 15:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you guys are playing games with each other. maybe you should just move on, idk.
2006-08-12 15:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by damsel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋