In a relationship with a partner, when is it 'enough is enough' for you?

Answer 1

Depends how deep or shallow the relationship is. Though assuming that a relationship goes deep as it ideally should be, there is no absolute measure there. The choice is always open to live with pain/shame but still in love or with the pain/shame and no more love. If people can get so far away from you still loving them, that would qualify as an enough is enough. Problem is that once you loved someone it never wears off. In other cases it probably wasn't love but something close enough.

Personally I'm pretty elastic because I think love is more important than all else, but there are limits to even an elastic stretch.

Answer 2

When you are so drained emotionally from being with this person that you are dry well. When you are the only one in the relationship behaving like a grown-up. When his behavior is affecting your self-esteem, employment, your well being. When family members don't want to talk about him because they don't think he is good for you. You'll know when you've had your fill. It gets to a point where you want out.....as fast as possible.

Answer 3

Enough is enough

when...

You know that they're never gonna change to benefit the rel. (quit drinking as an ex.) Also when they've given you many reasons for you to break up w/ them.

Answer 4

This is from "The Mexican". When you love someone its never enough! You never get to that point. Even when you are no longer together, you still think of the positives.

Answer 5

When the negatives outweigh the positives, and you have given it everything you've got but still are getting no positive results. That is when enough is enough.

Answer 6

so many reasons but the most important are.
1: If she stops respecting me.
2: If she cheats of me.
3: If someday i wake up and looked at her face and didn't want to kiss her anymore.

Answer 7

Enough is when the relationship becomes unhealthy and stays that way, whether it be mentally or physically unhealthy.

Answer 8

What are we talking about having enough of? Sex? Abuse? Cheating? Popcorn?

Sex depends on how tired we both are.
Abuse - enough is once.
Cheating - enough is once.
Never enough popcorn.

Answer 9

enough is enough.when you feel like you are not growing with him around or if you're not happy with him anymore.growing in a sense that you are not allowed to learn by experience because he/she doesnt want you to like work, have more friends, study for a degree.etc.

Answer 10

When I feel I can't trust them. Most people don't realize their insecurities with their partner and they put up with it until it's too late.