but he has cheated on his ex before but why am i sooo afraid he will cheat on me too,even though i am almost positive he will not...
2006-08-12 15:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you are a women that makes you insecure of yourself
2006-08-12 15:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just trust him. It's hard to do but it's something you both have to do. If not, he'll get annoyed by you questioning his trust, and he may leave you because of it. If he is cheating though possibly, here are some signs to look for incase he's wondering around on you. Does he come home with another girl's perfume scent on, does nothing you do matter to him anymore, catch him in a lie, not really sexually into you, new look, wants to be in shape fast, works long hours, talks about a new female colleague alot, doesn't invite you around the family anymore, and/or gets defensive and paranoid. These are some signs to look for if he's roaming. Learn to trust him though. Besides, if he is cheating or cheated on you, the truth always surfaces somewhere down the line.
2006-08-12 22:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you and him really are meant to be together forever. And that is a good thing too because it would be a shame if you were WASTING YOUR TIME WITH SOMEBODY WHO IS CHEATING ON YOU!
Trust your instinct. A womans intuition is usually fairly accurate. If you truly feel like you can still be in love with this guy 20 years from now then go ahead and stay with him. But if you feel like he's just something interesting to keep around until you're done with highschool (or whatever grade you're in..) then get rid of him.
If you spent half of the energy that you spend fretting over this guy on your studies your grades would probably improve a good deal if they need to. =) I bet that guy doesn't spend this much energy fretting over you.
Anyways, I know you're going to stay with him anyways since you and him are so lubby dubby together. Besides I'm sure that you're telling yourself that you've already been with him for x amount of time, so why throw all of that away when you're not even sure?
Lot's of women and girls who get cheated on talk like you. Anyways, have a nice night. =)
2006-08-12 22:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by La Voce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u have a camera attached to his back, u never know for sure. Chances are that if you guys have a commited relationship and are not real young, he may not cheat. If you trust in him and he trusts in you, you will have no problems. And if he cheats...move on with your life. I dated 5 serious men before I got married and all 5 cheated. Some young men just let their thingy do the thinking for them.
2006-08-12 22:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by y_welton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha its crazy because my boyfriend i feel like i know he would NEVER EVER CHEAT ON ME but then if u start getting into the viscious cycle of maybe he would? theres a 1% chance he would . i literally drive myself crazy! i have a lot of guy friends and ive asked them this before and some of them said ive cheated before but the girlfriend i have now i love her so much i could never do it. im assuming he didnt love his exgf and he wouldnt do that to u. but always follow your instinct
2006-08-12 22:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by nygirlsrdifferent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by cheat? Have sex with other people? That's not necessarily cheating. You mean lie to you about having sex with other people? That's definitely cheating. If you can't trust him, move on. If you can't trust anybody, change yourself.
2006-08-12 22:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Wordless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid because you know in the back of your mind Once a cheater always a cheater
2006-08-12 22:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need ot trust him more and let go of his past. "innocent until proven guilty", thats my motto. and thogh hes been proven guilty in the past and has a bad track record, it doesnt neccesarily mean hell do it again. if you see any fishy behavior though, you should confront him right away.
2006-08-12 22:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he never will but protect yourself when it comes to sex. Good luck.
2006-08-12 22:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE WORRIED BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF, JUST STAY CONFIDENT ENOUGH WITHIN YOURSELF KNOWING YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES SO HE WON'T CHEAT. AND IF HE DOES IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!
2006-08-12 22:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋