I usually babysit two kids on friday and saturday nights. Sometimes I have guys come over and we have sex on the couch, usually after the kids are in bed. Should I ask permission from the parents before I do this? The last people I babysat for fired me for this, which I thought was major overreacting on their part. I don't want to give the babysitting job up, because its good money, usually at least as much as I get from the guys.
2006-08-12 15:15:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not overreaction but any mother would do the same. Anyone who will know what you have been doing will definitely refuse to entrust their kids to you.It is such a big issue which will bring to much concern on their kids.Whatever are your reasons or excuses it is not right in anyway. Choose which you want to do. Forget about shooting 2 birds with one stone.
2006-08-12 15:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ lani s 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I should think that the first time you got fired for this that you would of already learned your lesson, I can see however that you didn't!
It doesn't matter whether the kids are in bed or not, I don't think you realize that when you are doing your 'business' you are not aware that the kids might be watching. I don't even know if you care that maybe those kids will learn to do it on each other just to encourage them how to decide on early pregnancy, If you have at least some self respect you would stop conning people for their hard earned money just so you can borrow their bed for your extra-curricular activities! even worse at the home that they worked hard to earn
Then again you are a type of person who is worth as much as you are getting paid right? no sense of self worth indicating that your life has as little value as being the tart of the neighbourhood. I'm sure you will find yourself with not just a warning but going straight to jail and i say this because i've seen it happen plenty of times where the neighbour happens to be a a nosy one and will report strangers walking into the house. The last person i noticed doing this ended up in jail and on the newspaper! so...are you going to sleep with the entire neighbourhood to keep your business quiet? what happens when one decides to blackmail you then what?
Hoping someday you will grow up! if not there's always the cathouse for you! least there you won't hurt any kids
2006-08-12 16:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by tantalus1076 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay... so the guys pay you too?
Concentrate on one job the one that pays the most, save the sex for outside of the job. I dont think that the parents should have fired you but I do understand where they are coming from. You hire someone to watch your kids and they invite someone over to have sex. Not very responsible. But yeah just try to babysit only. And save the sex for when the job is done, or if you wanna be sneaky you have to time your self. Make sure the parents are NOT coming home early and then get paid twice in one night ;).
Good luck and dont **** up. Haha. God thats crazy what your doing though.
2006-08-12 15:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should know the answer to your own question. You know its wrong. Someone hired you to watch their kids, not to *** over their funiture with guys who probably lack respect for you because your easy. Listen up,stop being a kid,that kids crap. You want a job take the responsibilities and don't have sex with guys in someone elses home when you have to babysit their kids. Be smart don't get yourself knocked up and then you'll have to pay someone to do the same crap your doing.
2006-08-12 15:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually after the kids are in bed.Does this mean sometimes the kids are still up.Sex on there couch where kids sit and play and lay.It is sad but you have to be sick in some way.And the other guys I mean guys can't say much about them either,but it says a lot about you.Those poor kids.I would fire you and bring charges.
2006-08-12 15:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it would make them uncomfortable. I wouldn't want anyone else but myself having sex on my bed or my couch. That's just nasty....They are paying you to watch their kids, not to get laid.. Have some respect and wait until after-wards. And do it in your own home or your partners.
2006-08-12 15:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pretty sure this guy is full of **it, "usually" after the kids are in bed? LOL. Obviously no parent is going to allow a gay prostiitute to work his second job while babysitting thier kids.
2006-08-12 15:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by Justaguyinaplace 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, ask for permission first. But make sure the kids are asleep. Then have as many guys as you want over. Just remember to put a sheet on the couch so you don't make a mess.
2006-08-12 15:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by sheila c 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Hell yes it is wrong. Put the shoe on the other foot. If they were your kids would you want your babysitter having guys come over and having sex on your couch???? It is morally and ethically wrong
2006-08-12 15:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kat N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THAT IS TOTALLY WRONG. You are being PAID to watch the kids - even when they are sleeping! Second, are you getting paid for this sex, because that is even worse. NOOOOO parent in their right mind would say yes to you having sex when you are supposed to be watching their kids!
STOP THIS! NOW!
2006-08-12 15:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋