My dad travels alot because of his line of work but when he is home we try to do as much as we can as a family because its rare for him to be around. Anyway just to give some examples I remember one time my dad came home from being out of the country and the next morning my mother made a big breakfast and my dad came into the kitchen and my mom said somthing smart and he smirked and said " I should have squirted some sense into you last night". I always have to ignore these types of comments that my parents throw at each other, I'm sixteen i'm not a little kid I dont know if they think I wont understand but its completely nasty thinking about my parents having sex. I cant tell my parents to stop talking like this because my parents are uncomfortable talking about sex with me. What can I do? These comments and stuff are sickning. I'm sick of hearing about my mom getting pounded or whatever. HELP!
2006-08-12 15:14:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
so what you are saying is you are still a little kid and your parents eed to censor what they say in front of you....
Oh Lord save us from this thinking....
Get over it.... your parents have bee having sex for a realllllly lonnnnggggg time.... and will still be having sex for reallllllly lonnnnng time..........
ummm how on earth do you think you arrived??? Perhaps you are still thinking the stork brought you...
stop being such a prissy miss and get over yourself... If your parents cant be themselves in their own home.... exatly where are they supposed to be themselves??
Hmm??
2006-08-12 20:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Parents are people too. They have sex. My parents have sex and my mother talks to me about it. Not details or anything, just if they are having problems. Like my mother gaining wait because of a broken knee and not getting any. But I do not mind now. I did when I was your age tho. Try telling them the next time. Say hey, I find it terribly uncomfortable with you two speaking like this in front of me. Will you wait till I leave? Or something along that line. they should listen, and if not, keep on telling them. Get a councilor at school to help you speak to them.(if school hadn't started yet, wait till it does.)
2006-08-12 22:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew, parents do stuff like that all the time and I'm sorry to say it doesn't stop either. My dad and step-mom are like that ALL the time; very open about sex with each other and just saying things that I really don't care to know about or hear. I feel your pain. The best thing to do is ignore it. If it's REALLY bothering you then go ahead and talk to them ... it's defintely okay to let your parents know that you really would rather them save that talk for each other and not do it in front of you. They should respect you in that. But, if you don't feel comfortable talking to them about it, then just simply try to ignore it. Sometimes it helps me if I just look away and make a ridcoulous face to one of my brothers in the room and both of us can laugh it off. If you don't have any siblings, then just make a face for yourself. Sounds silly, but it works!
2006-08-12 22:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard is it is to do, you need to confront your parents and let them know that you are uncomfortable with them talking like that. You realize they are both in love with each other, and that makes you very happy, but knowing the intimate details is something you would rather not know.
Sometimes parents, aren't always as smart or realize how tacky they are being when their children are around. I know this is going to sound impossible to do, but it will probably be the only way for you to get your parents to realize you are old enough to understand their private jokes.
2006-08-12 22:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you, i would be totally uncomfortable as well, they really should have better manners than this, they obviously would expect you to have manners. i would say it , i would sit them down and say guys I'm not 5 years old,,every time you talk dirty etc.. i can actually understand what your talking about..they may be shocked by this revelation as some parents believe their kids actually have no idea, telling them you GET IT might shut them up..so to speak..give it a try or risk being grossed out for the rest of your life,.,,,,,
2006-08-12 22:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i used to live with my dad an he an my step mom were really loud an it was gross an then i moved in with my mom an omg its gross hearing em talk dirty 2 each other everyday wen we have friends an stuff over its embarassing i noe this doesnt give u any help but i just thought id tell ya ur not the only 1 hun an im 14
2006-08-12 22:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to talk about sex to say "that's not appropriate in front of me" or "when you talk like that it makes me uncomfortable" right after they say it. If they take issue with what you are saying ask them if they would be willing to repeat what they said to each other in front of your teacher, or Grandma and Grandpa or the neighbor? They wouldn't and it will drive home your point.
2006-08-12 22:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just want to approach them in a nice way and also individually, that what they say infront of you is making you unconfortable. They are your parents, they will understand.
2006-08-12 22:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Tell them that you can't believe that this is the mouth they kiss you with.
You also need to know that you can't sensor everything, nor should you but that was just gross to say in front of their child.
2006-08-12 22:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings say you are a good girl. tell your parents you are uncomfortable with their dialog when you are present. remember one thing, at your age; you can pull everything together by your raw honesty.
2006-08-12 22:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by charles j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋