i like this guy
i never show any interest to him....so he never knows...... i m too shy
sometimes i think he has a little interest in me
but sometimes i think i m crazy, i think it is just my imagination..... maybe he hates me
there are times that i think he finds within the crowd
when we directly see each other, we can talk no problem..... the conversation is pretty smooth too....
but there are times that he sees me right the way and then when i prepare to say hi or smile to him, he just turns away (to a store) or pretend he did not see me at all
does he hate me? what is he thinking?
2006-08-12 15:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg...i wanna know too...i'm in a similar situation..
but u know what...after reading other peoples' answers.. i wanna say one thing.. keep one thing in mind.. never show the guy too much that u r really flattered by him n stuff... coz that will make him fly on cloud 9 n then he'll illtreat u / not pay attention to u / not take u seriously..at least that's what has happened with me earlier..
2006-08-12 15:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rollester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are, but it seems like high school, which is cool, because much doesnt change from there. maybe he feels the same as you do, but has problems showing it. Maybe ask him if he'd like to something sometime, like homework that you need help with ( fake it, you're probably smarter than him) If that doesnt work, just give it a lil more time, if he stills acts the same way, then you have to step up to the plate. just make sure he's available, if so, throw it up the flagpole and see if he salutes you. If he doesn't, no big deal, getting guys isn't your problem in life. Just remember, many a bad guy will come into your life, and only a few good ones will. Give the good ones a chance, spare you heart from the hell of heartbreak. and if that happens, remember, it can't rain all of the time. You'll be alright. As a guy I can tell you that it seems that he does like you, but evenm guys can be insecure. good luck.
2006-08-12 15:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't hate you. But being bland with him when you are talking gives him the impression that you are not interested.
And he either isn't interested enough to push through that, or he doesn't make any overtures because he doesn't want to take a chance of being rejected.
If you would just smile at him whenever you see him ,that he can see that there is at least a liking there, he may advance himself.
A smile is a powerful thing.
If neither of you do something, you'll be like 2 ships passing each other in the night, never knowing what you may have missed...
2006-08-12 15:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need to do is just simply try spending more time with him. He might be looking away when he sees you because he is nervous about making eye contact which could mean he feels something for you. Friends wouldn't have a problem making eye contact! I hope this helps and that everything turns out in your favor!
2006-08-12 15:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by littlemisspopprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so paranoid. Its got me in trouble too many times to count. Take a deep breath and be calm. FIRST stop being so scared! Rejection and risk is a part of life, so get used to it! Think of it this way, nothing will ever happen if you keep giving him mixed signals. You may have missed your chance, but start giving him attention, start showing your interest, and just go with the flow. Stop being scared and start living your life.
2006-08-12 15:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are extremely simple creatures, and almost entirely focused on themselves much of the time. Do not give them so much credit. They don't learn to hide emotions until they're in their 30's, if then. You can't use hints with them or expect them to read between lines. No reason to suspect them of plots or of complicated emotions. You have to make yourself known as a Woman to him, and not just a Person. Watch animal planet. I'm serious.
2006-08-12 15:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks your not interested in him.
give him a little hint you like him. Keep looking at him and give him a sweet smile. Oh and when your chatting with him make eye contact and smile. For sure then he will get the hint.
2006-08-12 15:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose, ask him out. If he says no, then you are right where you began, only now you can move on. But if he says yes, well then you have the start of something that could be good.
2006-08-12 15:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are still young so you still play a "cat & mouse" game!! So be straight forward and tell him what is in your mind!! If he still play games or is shy try someone else! The sea has many fishs!!
2006-08-12 15:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a guy he trys to play things cool...but if i were you and we talked cool i would tell him be honest but remeber if it isnt true things might be weird but hey i would do it i mean why sit there and if he dont like you than theres always someone better and the thing to remember is things happen for a reason
2006-08-12 15:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by FORGONE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋