For example, I used to be really interesting, used to drink and smoke and party late, and now I don't. I'll admit that in those respects, I'm not very much fun at all.
But I am fairly smart and like to have fun once in a while, but I wouldn't cheat or lie, not because I'm so noble, but just because those things don't interest me anymore. Also, it's just wasted energy, in the long run.
At what age do you think a woman starts to look away from constant action and more towards kindness and sincerity?
I know, we all want romance and fun (and so do I), but I think you know what I'm talking about here.
Thanks.
2006-08-12 15:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by ThatGuy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think when both parties have matured from the hussle and bussle of being a party animal etc. I guess I learned and appreciated the softer side of men in my early 30's
2006-08-12 15:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but you've got it wrong. For the most part, its not an age thing. Its about maturity and personal preference. I don't like to party, I dont' like the feeling of being drunk, I will never smoke because I can't stand the smell, and sometimes a quiet night at home is the most fun thing I'd want to do. I'm low maintenance in that respect. Haha. And I'm 17. I'm smart, dont' mess around with guys, I don't cheat because I dont' see the point. Everyone thinks that when I get to college thats gonna change. But my basic human nature is against all that stuff. I have dreams and goals. And staying out all night is NOT going to help that. Dont' get me wrong, I love going out.... It really depends on what people like. You're not boring. I'm sure you do other fun things.
2006-08-12 22:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they start to change themselves. I used to party a lot too, and now I don't because I have better things to do, responsibilities to take care of. And now. I want a man who takes care of his too.
I'm sure you're still interesting, just in a different way.
I know that it's harder for me to find guys now....that I'm not out getting drunk....because the type of guy that I want isn't out getting drunk, you know what I mean? I guess it's hard to explain.....you just gotta be patient....
2006-08-14 22:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When men start thinking with the brain connected to their neck instead of the brain in their pants. I think all women have hopes of meeting the 'nice' guy, the guy who will love them no matter what, because women can love no matter what... unfortunately, for the nice guys out there that sucks because a lot of women fall for the bad guy and it takes them time to see and appreciate the nice ones...
2006-08-12 22:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by tootsie45414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years old. We've lived enough by then to realize what's truly important in a partner.
2006-08-12 22:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by jasmine828_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋