I can't stop thinkin of all I did'nt do or could have i cry so hard i can't stop this torcher i miss him,he was my baby little 6month old boy,that tried telling me something was wrong....an me putting him out side sayin bad for peain on my bed times +,till too late im holdin.. my precious sweet baby that just felt so light an week ..looked up to me an softly meowed without a budge of his little orange body started to urine without his control........MY GOD why????WHY???he was so precious to me so much an i was too buisey to notice Im thinkin of every detale constanatly,he died in my arms he was breathing so fast an then the last big three.i keep reading this vet. book i have wondering this an that could i have mouth to mouthed him some air rubbed his chest .It just goes on an on with numerous details an consequences ,my little angel passed away feb.17,2005, 2:50p.m. an i laid on my bed with him an balded to dealth like now ;till i burried him feb.20,,above a candle i lite burn 3 days.
2006-08-12 14:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by bogusmebe 1 in Pets ➔ Cats
You did the best you could do...These things happen oh yes,to me too! replace him BUT, never forget him.
2006-08-12 14:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by billybob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow!! That was a very touching story. I thought that maybe I was...well...I don't know but I also had to put my little girl to rest on Aug 2, 2005. I live in a condo so I had her cremated and in an urn in the shape of a sleeping kitty. It has been just over a year for me and I still mourn deeply wondering the same thing. Will the pain ever subside? If the pain subsides too much then I am afraid the memories will, too. I believe now that she is my soul mate. Who says animals can't be our guardian angels? She was 14 almost 15 and she had kidney disease and it got to the point where I was administering fluids to keep her hydrated and that is not the quality of life she deserved. P.S. I too have a candle in rememberance of her.
2006-08-12 15:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Merideth s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my precious boy 5/16/06 & I miss him so much that I still cry sometimes. I never realized that losing a pet could hurt so much. You're not alone... Don't blame yourself. He was so young that I'm sure you never would have thought he could be that sick. They have grief counselors for people who have lost a pet & are having trouble coping. If you can't get past this, please get help. I'm sure your little friend is at peace, I beleive our pets go to heaven. No one can ever take the place of the pet you have lost, but I got another cat a few weeks after I lost my boy and it really helped. I don't love her in the same way, but in time I'm sure I will. Perhaps you should also consider getting another pet. I pray you'll feel better soon. Time does heal...beleive me. My kitty was like my child (I don't have kids) & he was such a comfort to me through some difficult periods in my life,and although I'll never forget him, I am coping and you will too.
2006-08-12 15:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my beloved Bobby ( 16 year old cat) on July 22nd. It still hurts so bad and like you I keep replaying things in my mind like what if I had taken him to the vet sooner and what if I had done this differentely and that differentely. I am still crying over him. I miss him so much.
He died in my arms too. He took his last 2 breaths in my arms and I didn't try to give him mouth to mouth cause he had been very sick for a week and was suffering.
I think that we did all we could for our angels. And I think we miss signs cause we are with them every day and its hard to tell a cat is sick sometimes, especially if they don't act like it. We have to forgive ourselves.
Bobby and I were so close. Even the vet saw this bond and commented on it a week before he died. He said that he was sending him home for me to take care of cause I was the best person for the job. That's what keeps replaying in my mind. What would have happened if the vet would have kept him? Would things have been different?
I went to work on the night he died. I came home and he died as soon as I got home. My Mom had been sitting with him for over a hour and I feel guilty for going to work and not being there for him in his last hour.
But I know deep down inside they are ok. My Bobby and your little kitten. We miss them but one day we will see them again. They are playing together probably right now and they wouldn't want us to be sad. They are ok and are just waiting on us to get there so they can run and greet us.
Peace be with you. I truly know how you feel.
2006-08-12 22:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Turtle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any death of a loved one-human or cat-we grieve and wonder what we could have done different. But if onlys won't bring him back. Instead of dwelling on what you shoulda/coulda done, think in the future if this happens I will do that. Then push it out of your mind for the short term, by thinking of something you did right for your kitten.
Eventually your hurting will lessen, and eventually you will be ready to give your love to another. And you will have learned to pay more attention to warning signs you see, so you can call a vet and ask is this something to worry over or normal.
2006-08-12 15:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by songbird092962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss ... but the next time your pet is sick or exhibits loss of control of bodily functions, you need to get them to a vet right away.
Animals also need regular check-ups at the vet to make sure they are ok since they can't tell us when something is wrong.
2006-08-12 15:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so hard on youself.you loved him and cared for him,that's whats important.death is a very painful thing,my dad died 1 year ago and i wish i could of told him more times that i love him and a lot more, so i try to remember the good things instead of thinking of what i should of .....
2006-08-12 15:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisfit n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my cat of 15 years and I too cried and cried. I thought my cat was sick but didn't get her to the vet in time. She died in my arms enroute to the emergency hospital. Time will heal your broken heart. I have another cat now and I love her just as much
as I did my other cat. Don't beat yourself up over this. Just give yourself time to heal.
2006-08-12 15:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by kagome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but my dog got lost and it hurts like hell
2006-08-12 14:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by ∴⇒☆❝ ŧħåłĩą ❞☆⇐∴ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋