I am confused about my religion and talking about sex?

Question

I need guidance

my christian walk is pretty gppd gp tp church, help with the youth, read the bible and pray.

non denomination but bible based church

talking about sex and playing with my breasts

spiritual guidance from one of you

what more information you. Please be specipic

Answer 1

keep it simple and clinical. and there is no offense taken. If you get vulgar is where you cross the line.

Answer 2

Is your Bible beliefs based on the King James or some other version? Sounds as if your doubting your beliefs. Check these verses out and read them carefully: Romans 3:10; Romans 3:23; Romans 6:23(the first part of the verse); Romans 5:8; Romans 6:23(the last part of the verse); Romans 10:13; Romans 10:9. These verses explain the direction for our souls to go for salvation. As for the other part of your question talk with mom first(if possible, if not then dad), if unable to then with a lady at your church that you are real comfortable with in talking about this.

Answer 3

Religion is usually fairly clear about sex. Not till you are married, only with the person of the opposite sex to whom you are married. And in some cases, only once every 9 months to make a baby.

Under these criteria, there is no need to talk about sex. However, not talking about sex will result in a pregnant 13 year old every time. Start with your parent of the same sex. If they are too embarrassed to talk, then move on to a school counsellor, doctor or public health nurse.

Find out what you need to know because God created sex and therefore it is natural and not a sin which doesn't mean that you should drop everything and give it a try. All in its proper time and place.

Answer 4

I don't feel like I'm the best person to answer the question, becaues you are a female, but this is a very very important question, and probably the biggest struggle many Christians have. If you feel like you may be sinning, confess to God about it and ask him to help you understand.
I don't know what kind of people your parents are, I now there are alot of very strict religious folks who might react the wrong way. If your parents seem like understanding parents, then you really should talk to your Mother, and I think she will have some very good advice for you if she is a Christian.
The enemy wants you to feel bad, and wants to put up a wall between you and God. Your desires are normal, but you have a challenge to control them. We all struggle with that.
So if you confess when you think you have sinned, and pray for God to help you, you will still be at peace with God, and the enemy will not have a foothold.
Sometimes religious people can shame you and make you feel shameful about your sexuality, which leads you in the wrong path. The enemy wants to take something that's natural and make it wrong.

Answer 5

well, Jesus loves you...! He has done AMAZING things in my life, and i know he wants to do the same thing for you. Talking about sex with a leader in your family, church, or any other Christians will help you understand more about it, and why God wants us to stay away from it's trap. Sex is like an addiction, like drugs, or alcohol. You start, and you can't stop, you need more and more. Something like that really rules your life when you get into it, and you become it's slave. God wants to be the one controlling your life, working things out for good, and if we let sex get in the way, we push him and his guidance out. Pray about what is bothering you, or ask someone to pray for you...don't be shy, that's what parents, friends, neighbors, and leaders are for! And most of all remember God loves you and you are His child! The world is evil, and he is Good...don't let go of his lifeline!

Answer 6

Ok, you should read teh bible, but not strictly. You can read for entertainment. There's no moral reason, why you can't. Regardless of religion, you shouldn't have sex, until you're married. But ou can talk about it, for the sole purposeof learning things, concernigning it. You can pretty much pray all the time, non stop, spontaniously- The Lord's Prayer is only our main prayer. BUt praying is good. I hope, I haven't confused you more.

Answer 7

It sounds like you are Catholic. It seems that catholics are the only sexually repressed religion. All of the protestant sects aren't. I was Catholic, then Lutheran. If you are uncomfortable talking about sex then you are not ready for sex. Simple as that. It takes and adult mind and attitude to have a serious conversation about a life changing action. If you can't talk about it then you are not ready to commit the one thing you can do that will change your life, or end it (If you get an STD).

Answer 8

Talk to your pastor or youth leader. Ask them to help you with your questions. It is better to get your answers from someone there.
Sex is more than the plumbing and how it works. It is an activity that is expressed at the right time and place with the right person (your spouse).

Answer 9

Talk about what is comfortable for you. Religion is basically you set of beliefs. At some point in you life you will have to talk about sex. You would not be here if your parents did not talk about sex.

Answer 10

s_x is an act that was created by God to occur under the circumstances He outlined. If you want to talk about it, talk to a wise older woman who you can trust. There is no shame in that.

Answer 11

Sex isn't wrong but unmarried sex is. Talking about it is ok b/c you need to know about it. You need to read the book, "Boys will put you on a pedistool so they can look up your skirt." It has all you need to know. Its a great book. I've read it 3 times and i'm on my 4th.